He is doing a great job. It seems that now he's actually understanding he's with a woman who wants to know "him" not her preconceived notion of what he should be...which is what he became accustomed to in the past.
Sure I had a preconceived notion in the past that men thought about sex 24-7...but I also knew I wasn't seeing the real him either...I would occasionally see a fleeting gimplse. That's one reason I truly felt he had a SD, it was just held very tightly in check and never let out.
Now...he's beginning to be the man I would glimpse on a more regular basis
Don't talk him out of shaving. Doing a little gardening will end up being appreciated by both of you. Besides when you do garden the cabbage it changes the whole experience of ML. Believe it or not you can feel things a little deeper when shaven so GEL encourage him to do so. At first it will be a little prickly but after awhile that sensation will go away and also encourage him to drop the tightie-whities and go with some boxers. That will help too!
Good to hear that he is opening up some to you and telling you what he likes.!
Thanks for the info. Actually...I wasn't really trying to discourage him from doing that, that's why I also offered to do it for him if he wanted. I personally would appreciate a certain amount of maintenance in that general area...it's up to him though how far he wishes to take that. I'm more than willing to be just as adventurous as he is
You know what's weird about my H is that he has always shaved, from time to time. Nothing regular, just when he (like the other fella said) wants to feel more. I like it but I like it the other way too, ahem, I'm sure that comes as no surprise to you, Lass.
So I'm glad to hear that he is opening up to you. About time, right! He takes a while to fully trust but it looks like he's heading that direction.
Remind me again now..what's the deal with the scheduled sex? Is that still on, or did you scrap it? If you'll remember we have a loose arrangement to do a Sun, Mon and Thurs schedule when I am better. I am looking forward to it. I think this time off period has given H a chance to mull it over in his mind also and decide that it's a pretty good idea.
Just a thought on the shaving. I did this and the wife really liked the way it felt, but.....she can't look at it when it is shaven. She says it looks weird to her, and she likes it more with the hair, but she does not get the same sensation and therefore it takes longer for her to reach an O. I like it being shaved, but I do not miss the daily upkeep, and don't ever let him try waxing. I tried that to maybe rid myself of the daily upkeep. The first pull was all it took to forever rid my mind of that idea or ever ask my wife to go through it. Never in my wildest dreams could I have imagined something so painful!
God is love, love is blind, Ray Charles is blind......so there.
I suppose my suggestion was strongly worded. I am not at all against gardening, or cultivating the ground cover, STS. IMPE, as a golf metaphor, you want to avoid the rough and the sand trap, but a nicely trimmed green is heavenly. (BTW I don't golf, so what do I know?)
