I went first, then my wife went. According to my wife, the counseler said that "we (as a couple) didn't have problem, she (my wife) had a problem". I went over the history of the M, and stated what the problem was as I saw it, essentially that I was dead last on my W's priority list. I guess the C agrees, I am going again tomorrow to follow up and get the next step. The C wants to see us both next, so that'll be interesting. My W and the C talked about W's situation and how she feels about her life, what is making her feel unwilling to ML most of time.
We were making progress, but once again the W is drifting back into old habits. Not much to report, but I think some posters wanted to know how the C thing went. OK for now, but too soon to tell if she will be effective.
I have been off the board for a spell, it seems to just bring me down to follow it too closely. Will post later on the outcome of the next C rounds.
You have made it past the first hurdle of getting your W to go to counseling with you. Best of luck to you and your W, Stu.
I don't mind the sun sometime
The images it shows
I can taste you on my lips
And smell you in my clothes
Cinnamon and Sugar
And softly spoken lies
You never know just how you look
Through someone elses eyes
BHS-"Pepper"
