HD and Lou, Is getting your issues pressed some sort of exotic service you request at One Hour Martinizing?
Cinema-trying hard to come up with an appropriate pun.
I don't mind the sun sometime
The images it shows
I can taste you on my lips
And smell you in my clothes
Cinnamon and Sugar
And softly spoken lies
You never know just how you look
Through someone elses eyes
BHS-"Pepper"
I feel like I am so much of a "ME TOO" poster, I just wanted HD to know that when someone has success it inspires me. I did not want to take away from HD's thread so I posted the least I could at the time.
Quote: I can't shake the memory of a conversation we had about two years ago when she said something like, "we'd make love, and then, two weeks later you'd be expecting it again."
Congrats on the Vitamin P infusion.
I know your W claims to be a Buddhist but I'm beginning to wonder if she isn't really a member of some pagan religion that believes in only having sex around the time of the equinoxes and solstices. Wasn't it right around the shortest day of the year when she last mentioned being horny?
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
I really have no idea what drives my wife to feel horny. Last Thursday's event seemed to have a large ingredient of "opportunity," yet, how many other times has DD3 been absorbed by the electric babysitter, when we might have had similar opportunities?
I will just keep being a "persistent wind," as directed by the MC.
Today is her birthday. I think I'll offer the opportunity for her to "get lucky." Doesn't everyone deserve great sex on their birthday?
Quote: Today is her birthday. I think I'll offer the opportunity for her to "get lucky." Doesn't everyone deserve great sex on their birthday?
Ok, as a LD female (striving for MD or medium drive) I can only offer this advice. Sex for her birthday is really only sex for you on her birthday! Even if it's oral sex... in her mind it's not 'for' her as much as it's something you would like.
I could be wrong about this, but this is how I'd think/feel. The saying in my family (huge LD history) is..."Getting ' lucky ' means not having to have sex..."!
Chris, that IS another issue, but let's cut the cheese, uh, I mean let's cut to the chase...
Ms. Hdog and I have been doing a bit better. Right now we have been occupied with some financial reorganization issues and, as you know, give her a project (as long as it doesn't have to do with touching me) and she is Ms. Manic. She came up with a budget, and a five year plan, and we talked about it at length yesterday. I think when she feels I'm "on board" with one of her ideas, she feels like we're connecting, and feels closer to me. The down side I can see here (always the Type 6, looking for the weak link) is that, working within a budget allows me additional opportunities to step out of bounds, screw up, and suffer criticism. I can work within her budget, it's just that I can see potential problems.
Of course, it's also pretty controlling, but I actually appreciate her effort, and, if it works, I can see how we'll be better off financially. And, of course, with less financial stress, there's less stress, and fewer reasons to be too preoccupied to think sexy thoughts, and...you get my drift? So I have both the financial incentive to work hard on staying within the budget, and the physical/emotional/relationship incentive, as well.
Just wanted to check in, update, and I couldn't just leave Chris' comment hanging in the air, so to speak.
Quote: She came up with a budget, and a five year plan
Was this a plan MrsHD came up with? It sounds like something I read about some months ago.
I don't mind the sun sometime
The images it shows
I can taste you on my lips
And smell you in my clothes
Cinnamon and Sugar
And softly spoken lies
You never know just how you look
Through someone elses eyes
BHS-"Pepper"
Yes, cn, she came up with it. When I talked about future plans earlier, they had to do with her wish to move to northern Wisconsin to retire...or earlier. This is more of a "get our ducks in a row" financial plan.