Okay, we're probably about to be locked out of the old thread. SO, we're on to another new thread. For those interested in following, the previous two threads are:
I did it again! I made the moves just like I did the night before last and yesterday morning! Once again, she rejected me. Same arguements and karate moves. She accused me of trying to "trick" her. I told her, "No, I'm just trying to help us both out."
This morning, I followed the same protocol. She had to fight a little harder to resist...because I'm pretty "keyed-up" these days! She said, "Honey, I love you but we just can't do this." ILY!? I think she was sleepy. So, I told her, "I want YOU." That's all I said...not needy but lovingly.
So, here we are. Except one little extra nugget, when I kissed her good-bye after getting ready for work, she said ILY again. WHA!? HUH!? Could that be the softening you wonderful ladies have spoken about so frequently?
I'm trying to keep my expectations tamped...and to remain realistic. She's got a VERY strong will so she is still in the D mode. I plan to continue working at this...and I'm finding that I'm not as LD as I once was!!
You are doing great!!! Keep this up, her armour will break...it's already cracking. Don't let the rejection and rebuffs slow you down. Hey...you got 2 I love you's already today She's starting to melt....there's just no telling exactly how thick the ice is that you have to get through.
Okay ladies-- I can't stop thinking about my W today! I keep thinking about what I would do if she submits to me...and I hope it is SOON!!!
I want to sent her a text message. She left her thong on the floor in the bathroom last night...and I had to look at it for the entire time I was getting ready. It was VERY difficult to contain my urges.
Should I send a text message that says something like: I can't stop imagining you and your thong!! It's making me CRAAAAZY!
Would that do anything for you? Or should I just skip it?
K, Your other pursuit tactics seem to be yielding fruit (ILY's) so I'd be inclined to give it a try.
I know it would work for me, that's for sure!
My H told me about a year ago that thongs and lingerie, etc, don't do anything for him and he sees them as just another piece of clothing. Maybe I need to cut him off and threaten to leave to get him thinking that..hmm..there might be something sexy about her in a thong after all!
He sees me all the time in sexy panties and the most I got was a "you look skinny!" this past weekend. I took it as the sexual compliment that (I think) it was.
So my vote is Hell yes!!!!!!!
Try it and see what happens. If the response yields fruit, rinse and repeat. Wait. I'm getting my metaphors mixed up. See what happens when I imagine a strong manly man salivating over sexy panties..I get all flustered and tongue tied.
Okay...I'll try it. She's at a Chamber of Commerce Luncheon right now! It should really throw her for a loop.
Honey--what's funny is that before all this when I was pre-occupied with my own--um--abilities, her in sexy lingerie didn't necessarily get me going. And, let me tell you, she really wore some awesome stuff...and probably all for MY benefit...I just was blind to it.
MAN, how stupid could I have been!! Anyway, it's not just the stopping of MB...it's the control I feel from it! When she rejects me, she tells me to do it myself. And, when I don't, I feel even MORE empowered (I really hate that word...but it's the only thing that fits in this sitch).
I'll try and report back the results later!! Thanks for the response! K
I did it again! I made the moves just like I did the night before last and yesterday morning! Once again, she rejected me. Same arguements and karate moves. She accused me of trying to "trick" her. I told her, "No, I'm just trying to help us both out."
She's starting to melt....there's just no telling exactly how thick the ice is that you have to get through.
