Ok, we aren't quite there yet, but the light is getting much brighter. H is still getting on the plane Monday for Germany but today said that we could "give us another chance" as soon as he has had some time to sort things out. He admitted today "I think you were right...this is mostly about my dad." His father died this last June...on our anniversary of all days. H thinks it will take him a couple months to think things over but says he thinks we will "probably" be together again. This is a big baby step for us, as two weeks ago he hadn't even thought of such an idea as me and the kids moving to Germany with him. In fact he thought it could never work. So I will have to say that two weeks isn't too bad to get to this point. I am still so scared though.....scared to get my hopes too high. I asked him if my hopes were too high and he said no. Thank you Michele! I have a good feeling now about all of this.
~Sacrifice is not what we give up, but what we ultimately gain~ My Sitch
