I have been busy with hubby so have not posted in monthes...just a quick update for those who helped me here....
My marriage is GREAT! I bit the bullet and did the jail time for the DWI...only got charged with Reckless Driving and have gotten my license back. My meds are on track...after a brief check in to the hospital...and my marriage is Wonderful! OH, and I'm driving again! Sober now for a year! Quit smoking!
Some of the things I do now....
Page H just now and then when he's at work and say Have a nice day honey or I just wanted you to know I love you or Hey babe, sure missing you....
Refrain from fighting over small stuff....remember how constant conflict almost drove us to divorce.....
Remember to thank spouse and treat him as I want to be treated
Got a life!
Made new friends.
Joined a gym.
Go to church. My life has just gotten better and better thanks to db'ing. Downside? Have to have a hysterectomy for health reasons on Monday....but the upside is that H could not be more supportive.....You see there is a positive in everything if we look for it...this is just a chance for H to pamper me and take care of me!
I love reading about success stories, and this sure sounds like a BIG one.
Good luck with your op on Monday. I have been having health problems too, that may lead me down that road as well. But, that's life, 'eh!
Stay well!
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
I will have lots of time to post when I am resting after surgery...will do so then! I'll catch everyone up with what has happened since July.....was it really that long ago that I last posted faithfully? Wow! Well, I'm back...but in a good way.
WOW AK!! Ya know, I was wondering about you the other day too and had hoped things were going well So glad to hear you got yoru life back on track and the M and everything are doing great. WIll keep you in my prayers re your surgery
Take Care, Zoo
"If patience is worth anything, it must endure to the end of time. And a living faith will last in the midst of the blackest storm."
- Mahatma Gandhi