ok... so this is has REALLY set me back into big time depression. My normal posting is on the seperated forum under 2nd time H left in 3 years if you want to check that out. How do I deal with this. The jerk actually put a band-aid over it but it didn't hide it and said he didn't want to hurt my feelings! WTF!!!!!!!! Then he yelled at me and called me names because I asked him why he had a band-aid on his neck! I am so tired of trying to hold on to my marriage while he is doing this. That 20 y.o girl is at my house every day, sleeping with my H and that's enough for me to deal with but he just slapped me in the face tonight! What do I do? I can't do this anymore!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
If you are truely at your wits end read the Last Resort Technique and apply it.
He needs a wake up call. This is difficult and requires very little or no contact from you. Your desire is, he will miss you and start to persue you. There are no gaurantees.