It's Unanimous- We both want out.

[MJontheMend]

I don't know why I see things so differently when my H has apparently never left square 1. This AM he turned me down for sex and told me that if I want him to have sex with me more frequently than is natural for him, I will have to

1) Stop wearing my hair back.
2) Lose another 20 lbs.
3) Learn to apply my makeup better.

Otherwise he will not really want to have sex with me and our encounter will be "mechanical".

I will probably not be back to the board for a while because I don't want anyone to try and talk me into giving him another chance.

I will return when I am ready to post pictures of me and my new HD boyfriend happy in bed together. Hopefully, he won't really be a dumb f*ck as my H predicts.

Love,
JJ

[grislen]

Jenny,

Im sorry to hear that. It sounds like your husband knows what will push you out. Now that he is uncomfortable he is using it to sabatage your relationship. I really don't have any advice. But her are some hugs ((((hugs))).

Lee

[citizen_cat]

I know we don't know one another, but I just wanted to say that I'm sending good thoughts your way. From what I've read here you are a good person, and deserve happiness. I hope whatever happens that you find it soon.


Leigh

[sat567]

He is such a dickhead.

Okay, I'll go on record as saying, "you're better off without him."

Hugs to you, Jenny. You are a sexy woman, and you will find happiness.

Hairdog

[InherJourney]

(((((( JJ))))))

I don't blame you for being so pissed off. I do hope you come back to the board.

xoxo,

IHJ

[annette]

JJ

I hardly know what to say....

(((((hugs))))

Annette

[honeypot]

What utter crap.

If that is trying harder, I'd hate to see what he says to you when he's bein lazy.

Please promise me that you will do something nice for yourself today.

He is a weak man.

Big hugs to you, Jenny.

xoxo

[Tomme]

Wow Jenny,
Hairdo said it best....Dickhead. But that's being way too nice. Take a deep breath and give it 24 hours before deciding not to return here.

[GonnaGoBlind]

JJ

Sounds to me like H is the dumbf*ck. Is he doing this on purpose to sabotage your efforts? It's as though he wants out, but wants it to be you that drops the hatchet. You deserve better. Besides, you've already given him another chance. {{{{{{JJ}}}}}}

[barneyfife]

Ditto to what HairDog said!

I don't think you have to leave the board, though. There's nobody telling you to do anything except what you think best.

So, I assume you're going camera shopping today?