I know inside she realizes something is not right with her sexuality. You want her to stay in this discomfort zone. So don't let her provoke a fight with you---it's her way of getting out of these uncomfortable thoughts. You become the impossible to please bad guy.
Hang on... the fact that she is letting you know that sex is on her mind is progress. Slow progress, but progress.
I think she's horny but has NO way to express it since she has already made her disdain for sex known, far and wide. Well, maybe not horny per se, but the thought is not sounding bad to her so she is bringing it up in a negative way, trying to get Hairdoggie to show some interest in her so she can "reluctantly" give in.
Orrrrr, she is beginning to worry that he does not desire her anymore since he is giving up on pushing the issue.
Ok, HD, I'm ready for your "oh whatEVER Honeypot" reply now.
My LDH gets horny about every month and a half, or every 2 months. As you know, his ED problem doesn't prevent him from having sex completely, but its difficult.
He expresses his "horniness" by making a comment early in the day that maybe we could find some time for "us" later on. Thats how I know he is ready for his horniness to be taken care of.
My feeling is alot of LD people get physical when "they" want to. Problem seems to be they don't want to very often, if ever.
I agree with HP, more specifically, W is worried HD is not showing much interest, and that really is starting to bother her. If he goes back into the "interest" mode, she will go back to her old demeaner, and I mean right back. Don't give in and keep a low profile in the sex department.
Hp, My LD spouse only gets horny when A) It's the middle of her monthly cycle, B) She's getting enough sleep and feeling good and C)Hubby hasn't done anything stupid to warrent not doing him this month. Sigh,
Scott
"Satisfaction is not guaranteed." Rule #19 Ferengi "Rules of Acquistition"
