Sun, hmmmmm so Captain America is a Capricorn too, huh????
Actually, perhaps him getting acquainted with your open hand would be an improvement? Perhaps he would be catapulted into the PRESENT. That wiley CA....never know though...but you might make him cry and I am sure he wouldn't like that.
As for LL, no grief about anything...in fact, I have hardly heard from him since Saturday.
He must be going through stuff b/c he hasn't called me and he seems lost...the blank look is showing up again.
So, I guess he will be absent and I will expect to hear some bs about what a terrible person I am and how I caused all the problems.
He talks about the lack of money and how we are gonna pay this or pay that. He is really depressed and you can hear it in his voice and see it in his face. Perhaps he thinks he is losing me b/c I am going to NJ---I used to travel a lot (to Europe and South AMerica) before I met him...I really miss that...of course, now I really can't afford it anymore...but as soon as these bills get paid off...I will travel extensively again. I figure, as I have no children and the odds are virtually zero that I will have one I might as well enjoy the rest of my life, right?
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
Well, latin luvah is missing in action...have no idea what is going on inside his head (as if I ever do!).
Went to have Margarita's with Cindy and Donna (LL's cousin and a gf)...OMG, Donna went through a bad D with her H who flipped out as well and is living in some ski resort in Northern California.
Guess LL is cycling again. BLEH.
WTF? he was doing so well, too.
SO, I am still GALing and doing my thing...trying not to make contact...sometimes I think they contact us a lot on purpose so that when they go to hide in the batcave, we're thrown off balance and then we pursue.
Well, I just gotta learn that I cannot be doing that! I gotta let him do his thing too...
I just wish this would all be over! I wish I were not here...I wish I would have the real LL back. Guess he isn't coming back.
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
Well, latin luvah is missing in action...have no idea what is going on inside his head (as if I ever do!).
We are in the same boat...I wish it was a cruise ship in the Caribbean!! But nooo, we're in some dingy that we keep paddling away in hoping our H's will come and get us...ugh
On second thought, we are doing great GALing!!! We are on a cruise ship having a great time!!...Just wish H was on the ship with me so we could enjoy it together.
Love, exciting and new Come Aboard. We're expecting you. Love, life's sweetest reward. Let it flow, it floats back to you.
Love Boat soon will be making another run The Love Boat promises something for everyone Set a course for adventure, Your mind on a new romance.
Love won't hurt anymore It's an open smile on a friendly shore. Yes LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE! It's LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE! (hey-ah!)
Love Boat soon will be making another run The Love Boat promises something for everyone Set a course for adventure, Your mind on a new romance.
Love won't hurt anymore It's an open smile on a friendly shore. It's LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE! It's LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE! It's LOOOOOOOOOOOVE! It's the Love Boat-ah! It's the Love Boat-ah!
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
Val, I need a favor from you but I would rather not post it on the board. I spoke to Chica this morning about it. I will have her email you my email address if that is Ok and then I can tell you. I promise it is legal in all 50 states
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
Hiya Val! Been following your sitch by lurking, never posted until now. I am amazed at how you have grown over the past few months in confidence and grace.
Where are you in Texas? I'm in the DFW area and the weather here is perfect right now
Keep up the good work sista!
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." -Eleanor Roosevelt. M-42, H-42. M-22yrs, together 27yrs, Sep 5yrs. D-22, S-18 I'm a survivor
