His Needs, Her Needs by William F. Harley is a really good book for figuring out what needs you have in a relationship. It has surveys that you can fill out to figure out what you feel is missing in your marriage. I recommend it.
In the first week after the bomb, my H did read this book when I thought the problem was the EA which he supposedly broke off and not MLC. In your case, your W might be more receptive to it since she asked about books.
Me45 H45 D13 S10 together-23 years married-21 years MLC Divorced 10/3/07 Married to a wonderful new man.
