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H and I had funny email exchange!

I LOVE IT DOES THIS FEEL GOOD!

W cooked a really nice meal last night. She included some vegetarian dishes for me which meant, of course, extra work for her.

My wife made a point of looking at me this morning when she said goodbye, have a good day.

What a surreal, whacky world where that is the best I can do today, so far.

I LOL and smiled at the DJ comments on the radio this morning - actually came into work happy! That's a first in weeks! DBing is starting to work for me! Yeah

H has been talking about the future.. and, it includes ME!

I spent the last two days off with my Son, just him and I. We had a great couple of days.

I have home made cheesey scalloped potatoes and ham and bread maker bread cooking at home right now for a 'family' meal for all four of us at the house tonight!!!

Yum! Can I come over for dinner??

My positive: No R talk unless H initiates it + No talk of OW + No begging or pleading or "talking sense" into H = Loving and caring attitude by H + talk of our future + H irritation with OW constant text messages! (now all he needs to do is kick her to the curb!!)

I agree, Wife called and we are going to have dinner tonight with each other. That means no OM.

Your equation is what is helping me the most.