Here's one more site. This is the most physiologically detailed. Maybe a thorough understanding of the anatomy involved would convince a woman that peeing is not going to happen.
Lil, I think that is fascinating... and that now makes sense to me where this is actually coming from, thinking on our positions when this has happened.
It really is hard to tell... because, again, the sensation prior to it does feel like you have to pee... but the sensation of it actually occuring is much different.
I also understand now why my favorite position is doggie style
The diagram is exactly where my bf has found his, er, uhm... success. Though I will say that when I was younger, this area was not very sensitive for me. Seems it has become much more so with age.
I've never, ever had an O with intercourse and I've never gotten much pleasure from the G-spot thing. Maybe it's because I've not tried long enough, I've heard it takes 10-15 mins and I don't try that long, maybe it's because like Corri said and the spot becomes more sensitive as I get older. But I do intend to try to figure it out.
Lil, you O for over a minute?! I am so missing out on something...I had no idea.
So, with that being said, if a girl wanted to learn how to do these cool things, have any of you come across a good book or do you think random internet research is best?
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"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."
I've always found the Karma Sutra books very enlightening regarding understanding my own female anatomy and sexuality. Taoist stuff is good, too, in my mind. Oh... crap came across another really good one... well... let me find it.
Anyway. Exploring my female sexuality was, is and continues to be one of the coolest, scariest things I've ever done.
Share ALL those books with your H, too.... but in a covert type of way... "Hey, H, I was reading about this thing I thought I might like to try..." show it to him... and then that way, he doesn't necessarily have to admit to something he doesn't know, nor will it feel to him like he hasn't been doing it right for you... you know?
don't know that a man can fathom that, because your bladder is actually shut off when that happens... Relatively speeking, men "CAN'T" pee when they are highly sexually excited. I have to lose my E before I can pee.
So what is not to understand corri? I am not saying women have the same equipment and that women work like men. I am saying I am open to the ideas. Post a medical link describing the reason squirting and peeing for women don't happen at the same time.
I just looked for a medical site why men or women can't pee during "O" but am out of time.
From what I remember, a man can't pee because the prostate colses off the urethera during sexual excitement. As men age the prostate also squeezes the urethera and older guys like me take meds to relax the prostate so we can empty the bladder.
I can pee with an E. I just have to back away from the toilet and make sure the trajectory is correct. What other excuse would a Man have for peeing all over everything but the toilet?
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain
What other excuse would a Man have for peeing all over everything but the toilet? Semen being sticky and causing part of the urethera to be stuck closed, sort of like a thumb over the end of the hose. That is why my aim is off. Aim has Nothing to do with can you pee or can't you pee when sexually excited.
Lil I have to read those links.
Corri, sometimes I post on the forum as a person with a 20 year old perspective. My first post about the guy thinking he was being pee'ed on was from a 20 year old perspective and a different time in society when oral sex was radical, and the first baby came after the wedding. Back then, female squirting was deemed to be a myth.
If you see different points of view, on my part, sometime the 20 yer old is here, sometime another age Lou is here. At times I try to give pictures of some of my life experiences and point out I had more than one opinon, at different times during my life.
Like I said girls, somk'em if you got'em. Sounds relly cool BTW.
