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Thanks 8 - I can't get that idea out of MY head either \:\(


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Now I am worried, you can't stop thinking about showering with my wife? \:\)


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Maybe its not your wife I am thinking about - I love taking showers together (sorry 8 not with you) but H is not the showering together type \:\( - maybe that's something I should work on too (but for the time being I need to focus on just keeping him here and perhaps, somewhere down the road, ML


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Hey; One baby step at a time. It is good to have goals, I think I will add showering w/ my W in the future to my goals list.

What the h@ll is it going to hurt at this point.


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Nothing wrong with dreaming right? I figure once you stop dreaming you might as well die


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couldn't have said it better myself, have a good night my friend and don't forget to dream big dreams.


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Thanks 8 - same to you (I think we both deserve it)

Sleep well !!


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Hey, what if all this IS the dream...wake me up, damn it!


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If it is, it isn't a dream its a friggin nightmare !!


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Just checking in to see how you are doing. Sorry I have not bee able to keep up but I have had my hands full lately with my own crap and would not have been very helpful, if you know what I mean. I hope you are hanging in there.

By the way I am not fully caught up on your thread but I wanted to mention something about the Necklace....

LET IT GO....It will not get you andywhere given your sitch other than push her further away. Yes she probably likes the damn thing and maybe even is rubbing your face in it a little bit but who cares. If it is the later she is doing it because she can get a rise out of you...Don't let it happen act as if. Act like you really do not give a sh!t. If it is simply the fact that she likes it, well she will continue to wear it anyway.

My point is the necklace is a lose lose sitch for you and is best left alone. Hell I have to put up with CB wearing JSO's cloths over to my house everday. Does it get to me, HELL YES. Is ther any way I can stop it. No. So I just have to live with it for now.

Take care and I hope everything is going alright for you.

P.S. sorry if the necklaace thing is a dead subject now but what I wrote has more meaning to it than that. It can be applied to a lot of different issues we deal with in our sitchs.

Take care,
Ben


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