if you met him..you would see its not going anywhere....hard to explain.......but we just get along...i am proud to be his friend and vice versa.....but it isnt romantic.
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
My H is divorcing me and wants to leave me with nothing. the depth of his betrayl becomes more apperant each day......he is still in a tunnnel not even seeing a peek of light. Standing maybe....I am not sure anymore......Sitting out here alone at my farm has not been healthy for me. I have no girlfriends to get with...they are all marriied ...and think I am a fool.....getting out skiing with someone....has been healthy. Its almost like a brother sister thing I never had with my brothers. For a few hours the pain goes away. Maybe this will actually help me stand...stronger
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
better...I just dont know what to think.....the cyclone thing i guess. Im calmer not as frantic..skiing did me good....got me out. But so confused at the betrayal H has done and I know this is only the begiining of what i will find out. its getting hard to tell myself its the MLC the old H will someday come back....dont confuse that with waiting and not GAL. It makes me sad kinda.
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
How are you mrshh? we sorta in the same boat confused , hurt, hopeless feeling???
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
Good morning all. I have an interesting muse after reading this thread. I would like to have a friendship with men while I am healing from my lost relationship with my H. Everyone else in my life seems to encourage this, "moving on". I just do not seem to be able to do this, but yet I see this is so harmful. Yet, in the back of my mind, as soon as I do move on, my H will be back, or more back, or what? I do have this pattern from him in my life....it is an uncanny thing really, so what to do? Sorry about the hi jack, just thought it was timely here.....
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
H doesnt need to know about any friendships.....my H well basically isnt in my life at all, stuck in replay. It doesnt have to a relationship. This guy and i know exactly what our friendship is..we are in control of the boundries. I met him on match.com....shame on me....ifI get nothing elase out of this meeting Dave was worth it.
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
