Hey Rob glad to see you'er doing well and thanks for sticking about!! It's good to have company in PIECING (have to be careful when I type that word, or I put piercing instead!! )
Anyhoo, I was wondering if it would be OK to ask a favour? I've picked up a newbie, I wonder if you get a mo would you mind hopping over to him to see if you can give out some pearls of wisdom? He's at HelpInCincy Hope you don't mind - just thought it would be good for him to have a visit from a Jedi - sorry, I mean DB - master!!
Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05 Seperated Sept/Oct 05 Oct 06 - H recomitted July 11 - I am now a WAW.
Thanks Jen - I'll drop in on their thread sometime soon.
Just a quick note, had a nice milestone. W is away on a 2-day biz trip right now, will be back late tonight. She called a few minutes ago to check in, we had a nice short chat.
Then, as she was signing off, she said, "Well, I have to go. Love you, bye!"
I replied (quick, before she gets away! ) "OK, love you, bye!"
First time W has used The L Word in months and months. I have barely used it myself either - want her to say it because she means it, not as an automatic response to ME saying it.
Who's got dat PMA today? Dat's right, you lookin' at 'im! YEA!
Thread #10 22 year M, MLC, Piecing since 1/07 Goal: Live with confidence & enthusiasm!
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
Remember the old saying - be careful what you wish for b/c it may come true.
Now the really hard stuff comes; but the really fun stuff too. Love her like the superior man you are. Love her for the special person she is. Love her for the special person you are.
You sound very happy!!! I am happy for you, things really seem to be falling into place for you and your family. Don't worry about the L word. It's happening....WOOHOO!!!
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
Thanks gang. I am very happy. The steps forward continue, life is good.
W and I have a date this evening, going out while D14 is at her homecoming dance with the latest boyfriend (number 5 this school year, if I haven't lost count!) We recently joined the Columbus Ski Club (which does lots of activities other than skiing, it's really a big social club for people in their 30's, 40's and 50's.)
Tonight we are going to the annual Learn To Lodge Party, which I think is basically drinking, snacking and dancing the night away. This could be a wild time, not entirely sure what to expect! Gonna have to dig up that link to the How to Be Charming web page for this one.
Thread #10 22 year M, MLC, Piecing since 1/07 Goal: Live with confidence & enthusiasm!
It's good to have company in PIECING (have to be careful when I type that word, or I put piercing instead!! 
) "OK, love you, bye!"
