I know you have only posted twice under your new name, but I am sure you are here looking sometimes. When I said the things I did to you on your old post, I don't regret telling you the truth about what a W goes through when this happens, or for telling the truth about your actions, or for telling you just how I feel about someone trying to justify her actions. What I do feel some regret for is the harsh way I delivered my message to you. I am hurting badly for what has happened with my M everyone who posted there is hurting, so you must understand that. I blame myself, my H, and the ow. But nothing excuses adultery, God sure doesn't, and you said you wanted to be able to worship Him without obstacle. You will never be able to do that unless you stop the affair, and get right with God. So, do what you know is right, and tell him to go back and make it right with his family, because that is what you and God want.
