Being on these boards have been an eye-opener, to say the least. However, I'm a private person and usually do not promote my life in public.
It seems that I was violated here, on these boards, when I specifically requested that a certain piece of information was to be on the QT (post on 1/10/07 - 9:24pm).
I feel that I have tried to help as many people as I could in their plights. Sometimes, it was necessary to exhibit tough love - other times, soothing hugs and understanding.
With my own R starting over as friends, seems to be what is needed to sustain the beginning of a new life with my XH. It is therefore, critical that I focus on that. My other concern, my sister, who is 10 years older, has lung cancer from an ovarian tumor. She's been on chemo for two years and hasn't had hair since. With this plate being full, the need is to concentrate on those aspects that require more attention.
My private life is that - private. I wish you all well in your recovery for your marriages - keep on DB'ing and keep respecting your spouses, no matter what they do.
From time to time, I may come back and see how you all are doing - but, for now, I need to stop being here, seeing my private statements displayed on the internet.
Thank you all for listening, giving advice, and caring... My thoughts and prayers are with you.
1210, not sure what happened here exactly, but I will tell you that I hoep that you are not really leaving us. Your input has been hugely significant to many people on these boards including myself. I have read your stuff all over these boards and gained so much knowledge from you.
I respect that your plate is pretty full, so I will only ask that when you do pop in and around here please look me up. I know that you would be the first to make sure that I am staying on the straight and narrow and I really hate the thought of not having you around to do so. Add to that the fact that Ben takes a group effort from us all, and CM will be crushed, and I hope you see that you are not only needed around these boards, but valued as a member of all of our extended families.
With that said, you do what you need to do for you, but please don't leave us completely....
My thoughts and prayers are to YOU and your family. I will miss you here on the BB, however ! Please take good care of yourself and our fuzzy friends !!
You have helped so many people here with your thoughtful insight and motivational personality, btw. You will be missed by all .
I, too, will miss you greatly 1210. You have been a good friend and offered encouragement at times I sorely needed it! I'm so sorry about your sister, that is a truly difficult situation to handle, it makes all our troubles pale in comparison. Please drop by periodically, I will be bronzing your 2 X 4!
I know you are not there at the moment and have moved on and are dealing with other things. However, I am posting this to you anyway ! I meant to do this when you opened your thread.
Miss you 1210. I hope eveything is going well for you. Thank you for all of your support and help through my time of need. It was and always will be greatly appriciated.
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."
Quote: It seems that I was violated here, on these boards, when I specifically requested that a certain piece of information was to be on the QT (post on 1/10/07 - 9:24pm).
Hi 1210... If you want to respond to me it ok and if not.. it is still ok..
I have been troubled by this for the last couple of weeks... and I am thinking that my post on 1-10 is the cause and reason.
I am the violater of your trust with the kitty friends I think. I know we exchanged emails near the time you cited in your post.. and I have always prided myself on keeping things to myself.. well .. I guess I may have screwed up and if that is the case I am so sorry and was way out of line.
I am sorry I hurt you and betrayed your trust in ME !
I kindly ask for YOUR forgiveness and just want you to know that I will never do that again.
I was not thinking ... apparently. I care about you and your sitch and would never willingly.. knowingly do such a thing. I am so sorry my friend.
I meant to do this when you opened your thread.