No matter how much you worry, the sun will still rise tomorrow and things will work their way out.
The main thing is to be good to yourself and keep yourself occupied so you don't dwell/obsess about things. I know it's easy to say and not so easy to do but it does become easier as time goes by.
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
Its been a few days since my last post so I will do a quick update: My W decided to withdraw the ultimatum but insists that I continue to look daily for some form of employment, I agreed of course. So I am excited about that, its a HUGE step in the right direction for us. We are still struggling through financial issues but I have applied to roughly 30 places this month alone. I do have one nice possibility with the county, just waiting on all the background checks to clear, once that is done I hope to get a job offer from them We are talking about our future together and what we would like to see short term and long term, she includes US in all of it.... I am still working on my trust issues, the recent problems have stirred up some unwanted emotions that I am struggling with. I still have concerns when she goes to lunch with her friends, female, or is late coming home from work ect. I dont believe she is doing anything she shouldnt be, its just fear creeping in causing worry. My bigest issues now, aside from teh job, is learning to trust. Any suggestions?
