Well my advice to you is to hurry and get a lawyer. And document everything. Granted courts are biased towards mothers no offense so you will have an easier time than me but I have so much against her its not funny. Including last night my son confiding in my counselor about some physical threats with her boyfriend towards my son. But again document everything. every lie, if he is dating document it. Cover your butt. be squeky clean. My wife acts like she is the perfect mom but a good mom doesnt abandon her child. People with mental disorders do....
My case is taking forever because she will not do anything to move it along. She never filed a response to being served. She never tookthe child of divorce class So we had to jump through hoops to get this to court, and she has flat out refused to mediation. Court is in a week and she doesnt even have a lawyer yet. It has cost me over 3 grand just to get to this point.
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Honesty, sincerity, tenderness and trust. A little less time for the rest of the world, And more for the two of us. Kisses each mornin, I love yous at night, Just like it used to be.
Well look out for a battle. You never know if it will happen or not.
Honesty, sincerity, tenderness and trust. A little less time for the rest of the world, And more for the two of us. Kisses each mornin, I love yous at night, Just like it used to be.
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Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
I'm sorry things have went so bad for you and she has put you through so much.
Just remember your son is the important one right now to feel stable and secure. You are such a loving and caring person. That is the one I remember and I'm sure is the real one. Don't let what she has done leave you bitter.
Yes, you have every right to be angry. You weren't here when I finally went through my angry spell at David. It was ugly and I wasn't sure I would ever get through it to the other side. But I did and I think you have to go through an angry stage. I'm told it is one of the steps in grieving. Just try not to let the anger take over your life.
Write me sometime if you want. I don't think I still have your e-mail address after my last hard drive died. No, I didn't have a back up!
Take care and hugs to you and your son.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
I too remember you from way back in 2003 or so, in one of your earlier go rounds with your wife. She certainly seemed unstable even then.
Well, I finally nailed my ex's personality disorder to narcissism (NDP), and finally being able to understand what is going on was SUCH a relief! Not that the co-parenting problems ever cease, but you stop living on the utterly false hope that things will ever change. You can then get on with your life.
Wishing you all the best, you were a tenacious and loving soul, as I recall, but an innocent like many of us, in the big bad world.
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
