Actually, Easton is a good place to take a date because there is so many things to do there. Theater, Comedy Club, cool restaurants and pubs, game works, unique shops, etc.
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain
GAMEWORKS!!!!!!!!!! I completely forgot about that!
H loves video games. That might be an even better place to hang out. Great Idea! Your idea is great too, Ben. I just know that J loves video games and that is one thing we can both enjoy....hopefully.
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."
Good ideas....now, just getting up the nerve to ask. Why am I nervous about asking...I haven't been nervous about saying any of the other things to him that I have had to say over the past 3 months.
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."
"Man up"..The worst he could say is no. WTH...Like that is any worse than anything else that is going on in your life right now. Be a little mysterious about it if you can. You really do not have to tell him where you are going.
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."
Well, I am sitting here giggling because I am sitting back and watching a freak show! Remember I had said that the administrator from where H works called the house twice yesterday....well he called twice this morning before I left for work.
Let me rewind to yesterday. I finally got ahold of H around 3:45 yesterday to let him know that this guy was looking for him. He said that he would give him a call and would call me back later. At 6:40 he finally called me back. He said he was sorry that he hadn't called sooner but he had been called into work. He said that he tried to get ahold of this guy but he had already left for the day. I asked him if something happened and he said that it had to do with one of the other STNA's. I didn't believe that but listened to him. He said that he would be over today to watch the kids so that my mom could go home for a little while.
So we are back to this morning...the adminstrator called at 8:15 looking for him. I told him that he wasn't living here right now and just let him know of the situation. Just told him that he probably needed to be made aware of it seeing that the A is with a co-worker. He said that he was not aware and thank you for letting him know. I told him that I had gotten ahold of H last night and that he said that he was called into work. The guy told me that he would look into that. He said if I needed anything to give him a call. So 5 minutes later, the phone rang again. It was the adminstrator calling back. He said that he had looked into it and H did come in to pick up his paycheck but did not clock in....he wasn't called into work. He told me that he wanted to give me a little bit of truth. I thanked him and said that I have learned not to believe what H tells me half the time. He then said "Can I ask you a personal question?" I said "Of course." He asked me if I was experiencing any anger issues with H. I told him that he has always had a short patience level but nothing that would be out of control. I said that he was angry right now because he has been caught in what he is doing. He also gets a little angry when I try to talk to him about things. I told him that his emotions are truly all over the place right now. But I also insisted that nothing has ever become physical or out of control. He said, "Thank you! What you have told me helps out alot. I have had to suspend him because of something that has happened at the nursing home. I can't disclose everything but I have to investigate what has happened."
What H doesn't realize is that everything that everyone has been trying to tell him, is coming true. He has so many people praying for him that he can't escape it. His world is starting to collapse around him. I am just sitting back and watching it crumble. Will the OW put up with this and support him???....can't say that she will. I am so tempted to try to call him on the next night that he is to be at work. If she tells me that he is at work, I could say "Oh no he isn't. Didn't he tell you that he has been suspended?" She may know because she may be involved in the whole thing as well. But I doubt that I do that.
I am just sitting back watching him explode and kind of taking joy in it. It kills me in a way to have to see his life come out this way but this is what it is going to take to put his life in perspective.
Anyways....my morning has been just fine!
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."
Sit back and let it unfold. You should do nothing. Let him hit rock bottom on his own. If you aid in this in anyway and he finds out, he will never forgive you. Just sit back and watch the show.
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."
I won't do anything to aid this. He knows that I am here for him. What he doesn't know is if she will be there for him. I did let the Administrator know about the A because he needs to know...especially since it is happening in his facility. This could be a cause of what H is getting suspended for.
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."
