Yashie, thanks for checking up on me. there is an update at the MLC board titled "H distant again". things are pretty good, as you may read over there H is a little distant again right now. the last time he was he snapped out of it quickly, the next day he was better so I'm hoping this one is short too, especially since I have this wonderful weekend planned for us (him) with dinner and then an over night stay in a hotel in Boulder Co. the town we met in 21 years ago this month. He doesn't know about any of it yet and later this week I will mention wanting to take him out to dinner and the hotel part he won't know about til that night. I'm having a bottle of champagne and a piece of cheesecake sent up to the room when I check in while I'm supposedly using the restroom at the bar in the hotel where we will go for an after dinner drink. Lots of plans, I hope they all work out! This also includes breakfast Sunday morning at a restaurant that an old friend of his (male of course) that H hasn't seen for a long time or talked to will be meeting us for, another surprise. Again thanks for your interest. Lisa