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Just wanted to wish all a merry Christmas and a happy New Year. My prayers are out there for my friends here on the board. I wish peace and resolution for all of you out there. Things are sloooowly improving, however my patience is sometimes thin. Some things are back to near normal, others show signs of heals well buried in the dirt.

I wish you all a better New Year.

A lot of positives out there. Christmas was good. Interation between W and I was about as good as could be expected. I find myself having a hard time posting. Sitch is better than most, but not where it needs to be. Time will tell I guess. When things get back on the intimate plane where they should be I will feel a lot better. Don't get me wrong, there has been positive steps there, but not as it should be.

For now I am thankfull for what I do have. Work and time, the song of the year.

Not an ounce of advice to offer, won't even try. But I was wondering about that pie?

Thanks for your visits to me, I really do appreciate that and it means a lot. I hope 2007 is your best year ever and all your Patience, Love, and (really) long suffering pays off for you in a great way!

I'll have to figure something out on the pie.

Pie!? What pie? Or, is it Pi!?

I also agree that flowers are always welcome

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but not where it needs to be. Time will tell I guess.

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Yes it will, do a review of what's happened, look at your sich from what it used to be, it took a while to where you are right? so, it will take another while til things are where you want to be. Remember, we all go at different paces in healing.

HOpe you have a better new year!

Flowers are direct, pie is sneaky. Either or both could happen. Depending on confidence and tone in the house, we'll see which happens. I might get some guts and go for both.

Personally I would be thrilled with the pie - why? First of all my H can't cook so that would shock the hell out of me

Second, its out of the usual - its easy to buy flowers, but a pie? That's special - and you can share a piece together - awwwwww how cozy is that?

Pie is climing the request line charts, we'll have to see where this one ends up. Yes, I can dream can't I?

Pie is sneaky? what kind of pie do you make? and just what DO you plan on doing with it???????!!!!! Don't forget the whipped cream.....to go with the pie of course.

Ok, seriously, I know how you feel about the confidence, afraid of being shot down. But, sometimes being shocking has a good effect. Only you can really feel out how that might work for you. If shocking doesn't work, try just a little bit of shaking the tree and see if anything drops or it's all good and tight. Slow and steady wins the race.
Good pie helps.