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Oh thanks Cat you give me hope. I have told him I'm willing to wait and I am going to try really hard to give him all the time he needs although it is killing me as you know how it does. When I said I'd wait he said he doesn't want me to get too hopeful. I don't know if this is because deep down he knows he's going or if its because he genuinly doesn't know and genuinly doesn't want me to pin my hopes on him coming home? but of course I can't ask him this.

He has asked me today if I would like to go to town tommorrow afternoon. I have said yes as I thought it would be a chance to start DBg again without asking questions because I have started to slip up as you know. He has also asked if he can join me and S on a day trip I had planned for us and I have agreed to this also so I can really DB him.