After 2 days of no contact with H, he came back on Monday, our Anniversary, and said that he cannot imagine his life with anyone but me. Said that he would end contact with OW. said he woudl stop lying. i told him, it's all words adn that this time I need action.

So, last night, he left OW a message, with me standing right there, and said that they are to no longer have contact outside of work-related. He told her that we are back together. I saw this as a big step... somethign he had never done before. I'm really hoping we're starting to put an end to thsi mess. But i've learned not to count on anything.