sHE IS DOING THIS TO GET EXACTLY THIS REACTION OUT OF YOU I HAVE A 21 YEARD OLD FRIEND AND SHE HAS DONE THINGS TO PEOPLE JUST FOR THE FUN OF SEEING THEM UPSET LIKE YOU ARE JUST B/C THEY HURT HER. THIS b*tCH IS GETTING EXACTLY WHAT SHE WANTS IF YOU GET MAD.
YOU YOU YOU YOU AND ONLY YOU HAVE THE POWER HERE DO NOT LET HER F*CK WITH YOU OR THAT. HOW LOW OF HER TO WANT NOT ONLY TO RUIN YOUR MARRIGE BUT TAKE AWAY THE GIRLS DADDY. HE KNOWS WHAT HE WANTS AND IT IS NOT HER TAHT IS WHY SHE IS TALKING LIKE A F*KCING IDIOT.
HE HAS NO CONTROL OVER WHAT SOME SL*T POSTs ON MY SAPCE,,,
I WAS NEXT TO MY h WHEN HIS ow WOULD CALLL 5 -10 TIMES IN A ROW AND HE NEVER ANSWERED..... LET HER ACT LIKE A CRAZY B*TCH IT WILL PUSH HIM FURTHER AWAY.
ALSO I REMEMBER one time my H recieved a text from her I miss you etc. etc and then he left to go to the bar... he never called her and he called me about 7 times tell he got thru to me and talked to me. {[ I know this for a fact cause I have access to his phone bills and I used to snoop on his phone and AMYC and others snapped me out of that hurtful behavior}}
Your h needs you...you ,you, you ,you ,you ,you ,you, you,
not some upset scared little girl. This B*tch HAS NO POWER DO NOT HELP HER BY GETTING MAD AT KEVIN OR even ...THINKING HE LIED . PLeeeeaaasssseeee. Stay off the my space it /she is robbing you of your inner peace...
I have to make my daughter some lunch, she stayed home cause she twisted her ankle and I will be back. Calm down honey ,,, please. This is just the beggining these Ow are relentless... hang on you are in for the fight of your life but you must do it with dignity and stay CALM> No yelling or anger. get upset and call her every name in the book but do not let kevin in on any of this. It is not his fault she is an idiot.
Quote: And has the girl not heard about runon sentences?
MY GOD.
USE A FRIGGIN PERIOD!!
Between that and not spelling half the words right or even using the right words.... I read that and I thought a 12 year old wrote it. She does need to grow up. How old is she anyway? She makes no sense. She has no sense. Some of us spell wrong when we are in a hurry but her whole blog was crappy. No wonder she has a coloring book, it is more her age.
Emily, Listen to these ladies they know what they are talking about. Don't let her get to you like this. She is nothing but a piece of trash. I did the same thing you are doning right now. Letting her get to you. Don't let her control your life. You are better then she is. You have God on your side. What does she have? Nothing. I have spent the last 10yrs of my life letting someone take over my life. This is no way to live. It took Jokerman to help me find peace. He told me what a great injustice I was doing to my marriage and my children. Can you imagine living this way for 10yrs. What a painful way to live. I wish this on no one. God just knows when to send someone your way when you realy need it. He's sent all of these ladies your way. Use them in every way you can. It truely pains me to see you go through this. Just wanted to let you know that you someone else here for you.
She's like a year and a half younger than me. I think she's 20 now.
She didn't graduate highschool . . . she dropped out in 9 grade.
I'm just going to tell him to go live his life and be happy. I cannot continue on with the lies. He doesn't want to be with me . . . but he feels obligated because we got married and had children.
I will lose the girls. . . . he's in a better position that me. He can take them from me . . . I won't even fight him on that. This the that straw that broke the camels back. . . . he wants her . . . hell she's probably right back out on the road with him. He probably only got next Sun/Mon off so that he could go see that D lawyer . . . he probably NEVER intended to come home to me. It's always about her (just like he said).
She's right too . . .we may have gotten married 3.5 years ago . . . but he's been loving her more recently . . . and despite what she thinks I DO WANT HIM TO HAPPY. I don't make him happy anymore . . . . so let her "stand beside him through everything and hold his "heart"". I give.
Emily who is this girl that any old sh*t that comes out of her mouth you believe as "Truth" and go down that spiral again. She's nobody!
Stop the cycle, now!
You only have a few days to go till Monday to see what Kevin does. Take a deep breath... wait till then. You can wait a few days, right?
Think about it then. Just put it out of your mind for now. Get busy with something else. Go take the girls out for a walk. Collect things and make a scrap book. Anything to stop that spiral.
You can stop it.
May it be eternal while it lasts.
My sitch
Me: 36
H:34
M: 5 years
Bomb: 03/14/06
I'd have 9 days until he might POSSIBLY come home. He says he'll be here but he's said that the past two weekends he was suppose to be home (which makes a month total) . . . . I cannot stand sitting in limbo just to see if he's going to start the divorce process in 9 days.
She has EVERYTHING to do with the situation . . .she's the only reason there is a situation. I don't feel like I even know the man I am married too . . . she knows him a hell of a lot better than I do. They are still in contact. . .
I GIVE! I know this is the cycle . . . but it's coming to an end . . . he's ending it with a divorce.
