I feel stupid that I am responding to this, but here is my viewpoint. And I am sharing it because (sure hope that people can't track me on this board)

First off, I don't want to share or see my wife with a another man. However, I have fantasized about it. But it was only a really recent fantasy and not a frequent one.

I honestly think that it stemmed from my desire to see my wife as a sexual person. To see her just alive with sexual desire and brimming with lust. For me I think the fantasies started when I was trying to figure out why she has become LD over the years. From there, I started thinking about our past history (known her since high school)and when we were intimate and she was HD. And then comparing it to her past history with other guys.

While thinking about it, I realize that it was a turn on to vision her sexually active and excited even if it was with an old boyfriend.

A possible guess, in your case, is maybe he wants and desires to see you stepping outside of your current comfort zone. Or he wants to see you emulate some of his solo time fantasies.

My advice...don't do it. It is a fantasy...only. I would be crushed if it became reality. However, you can role play it and let him in on voyeuristic type fantasies. I think you and he will find that it will go a long way.

Another piece of advice. I think you and he both know that you won't do it. However, don't say that when it is leading up to a "moment" Leave that part for during the daytime.

Lifer
(hope I haven't broke any board rules or something)