Hey Chrome, I see the good times continue to roll for you. That's great! be careful though, because I just about guarantee it won't stay this way, you'll probably have some backsliding as time goes on. Like someone else said, though, keep in mind the past few days when she does take a break and try to keep fresh in your mind how you broke through and got here. We've been on a bit of a roller coaster ride over the past 2 years here in the GGB household. If you look back about a year and a half ago, I went on a stretch of nearly 3 months were it was 5x a week or more, and then it kind of petered out when #6 was born. Getting it started up again after that has been a series of fits and starts, and I think we are finally making headway now (hasn't been 2x a day since last week, or even 1x a day, but the EC is still going pretty strong).
As for her O, MsGGB often O's pretty quickly if she's already warmed up. If not, it can take quite a while. So far though, she's a one-trick pony, meaning once she O's she's done for the night. Can you feel when she's getting close and back off a bit? I find that doing that will keep her from going over the hill, which in turn lets her go higher (I've got a balancing act though, if I get her too far up too quickly, it is too much and she stops me...game over. Anyway, great to hear it is still going strong for you.
Don't worry about the quick "o" - happens to me all the time. I can still have a really intense o again after that. The quick one is almost reflexive. So...as far as strategy is concerned I would let her have the quick one and then back "waaaaaaaaaaaaaay" off and tease her until she gets revved up again. Just back off the genitals and start over with the kissing, the breast etc... The next one will probably take longer and be much more intense. At least that is how it works for me. Sometimes my most intense o's have been after several less intense ones and me thinking that I couldn't possibly have another one left in me.
Re to Lil's "sneaking one more in under the wire" which I think could be true if you both wanted #4, while at the same time not wanting to get PG, so she is finally able to have fun with the "hand on the bits" activities, knowing she can have some fun for a change.
About your size. It is what it is. Would your W ever consider vaginal dilator's to gradually allow her to feel more comfortable with you while you are inserting?
I read a small group of woman's posts on another forum dealing with vaginal pains. I wished I had saves the URL but what the successful women did was to use a series of graduated sized objects in their vagina until they were comfortable taking on their H. There were some PC type exercises that went along with the dildo-like stretching devices. Not TMI, I hope. I am just offering a potential solution IMO.
While not at where you want to be, "inside feeling like a stud" (just guessing chrom) I am glad you two are experiencing some form of sexual satisfaction. The last time BB had an "O" was 1981 I think, her choice, so at least you are progressing.
Quote: OK folks. Something has got to give. This morning made about 9 times in the last 4 days. I'm actually started to wear out a bit. I guess I need to eat some spinach.
We are having a different kind of problem, in that she sometimes O's WAAAYYY too fast. I mean, like 5 seconds after I find her G spot. I don't even have a chance to try any of the delay tactics. I do engage in foreplay for about 15-20 minutes typically (although this morning she wanted it NOW!). Now if it is the second O of the night, I can do my thing. So ladies, what can I do to prolong the first O?
Am I the only one who laughed out loud when Chrom referred to this as a "problem"?
I agree with Karen. The recovery/resolution phase varies from woman to woman but it can be pretty fast, especially if you're just trying for a second O, not a third or a fourth (LOL). I suggest that you get a clear go ahead from your wife before you go for her genitals again after orgasming. Kind of like the non-verbal communication you might have with another driver at a four-way stop. An over-stimulated clit or g-spot is just not going to fire and is going to hurt. I think this is one of the most frequent problems that leads to miscommunication during sex. Many women are too shy to say "Give me 5.".
Another trick would be to go for indirect stimulation. This is something I love. Apply pressure downward on the pudendum rather than directly on the clit or use your tongue through some silk rather than directly on the skin or hump on top of some denim. The thicker the barrier, the more aggressively the pressure can be applied and this results in sort of a different tone to the orgasm. For instance, non-stop tongue directly to the clit would be a very high pitched orgasm whereas dry-humping through leather would be a very low pitch. Actually having something sizable inserted in the vagina while orgasming further lowers the tone but also adds much more muscular involvement which changes the whole vibration. If you can figure out how to hit many different erogenous zones at the same time while your wife is orgasming then you will be a sexual one man band .
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I agree with Karen. The recovery/resolution phase varies from woman to woman but it can be pretty fast, especially if you're just trying for a second O, not a third or a fourth (LOL). I don’t see any thing wrong with chasing 3 or 4 actually. In fact. multi-orgasmic women really rock. For example, my partner prior to my W would O the first time due to oral stimulation, the second time due to IC, and then a third with a special blend of IC and manual stimulation. Thus, for her, 3 was kind a minimum to be happy. 4 or more was an especially good night
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Quote: As for her O, MsGGB often O's pretty quickly if she's already warmed up.
So Mrs GGB has finally let herself go over the top-- bravo! If I recall, it wasn't all that long ago (and for the first couple of decades) that when she got close it felt to her like she was going to pee, and she'd fairly fling you off of her-- glad she finally got past that!
Lil, She lets it go a lot further now, she'll still stop me before she gets a big one (that pee feeling again), but at least she's letting the smaller ones go all the way. It has definitely had an effect on her interest level as well.
She's also putting my fingers on her clitoris now when we are ML, which is new.
Quote: She's also putting my fingers on her clitoris now when we are ML
Hot damm! That's radical!
Would she let you stimulate her manually with her lying in a candlelit bathtub under water (or in a hot tub) so she can let that gotta-pee feeling come (as it were) to fruition and find out what it's all about? That way she could tell herself that if she did accidentally pee (which we all know is not likely), you wouldn't even know about it. It would be her little secret.
Gotta run home folks. I did hear the following on the radio. Its a pretty freaking depressing song, but WTH. Glob needs to be fed to keep him under wraps. I'll respond to your wonderful posts about peeing in bathtubs later. Boy, that song really clashes with my sig line.
Hate Me - Blue October
I have to block out thoughts of you, so I don't lose my head They crawl in like a cockroach leaving babies in my bed Dropping little reels of tape to remind me that I'm alone Playing movies in my head that make a porno feel like home There's a burning in my pride, a nervous bleeding in my brain An ounce of peace is all I want for you, Will you never call again? And will you never say that you love me just to put it in my face And will you never try to reach me, it is I that wanted space
(Chorus) Hate me today. Hate me tomorrow. Hate me so you can finally see whats good for you. Hate me for all the things I didn't do for you. Hate me in ways, yeah ways hard to swallow. Hate me so you can finally see whats good for you.
I'm sober now for 3 whole months, it's one accomplishment that you helped me with. The one thing that always tore us apart is the one thing that I won't touch again. In my sick way I want to thank you for holding my head up late at night While I was busy waging wars on myself, you were trying to stop the fight You never doubted my warped opinions on things like suicidal hate You made me compliment myself when it was way too hard to take So I'll drive so [censored] far away that I'll never cross your mind And do whatever it takes in your heart to leave me behind
(Chorus) Hate me today. Hate me tomorrow. Hate me for all the things I didn't do for you. Hate me in ways, yeah ways hard to swallow. Hate me so you can finally see whats good for you.
And with a sad heart I say bye to you and wave Kicking shadows on the street for every mistake that I have made And like a baby boy I never was a man Until I saw your blue eyes cry and I held your face in my hand And then I fell down yelling "Make it go away!" Just make her smile come back and shine just like it used to be And then she whispered "How can you do this to me?"
(Chorus) Hate me today Hate me tomorrow Hate me for all the things I didn't do for you Hate me in ways, yeah ways hard to swallow Hate me so you can finally see whats good for you ...for you...for you...for you
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
Not TMI, I hope. I am just offering a potential solution IMO.
I'll respond to your wonderful posts about peeing in bathtubs later. Boy, that song really clashes with my sig line.