Thanks guys. Not exactly sure how to apply this to us but feel like something along these lines is needed. If you have significant time to give at some point I'd love you to read my thread. I can go on a bit... I read a mag article about Feng Shui (bet that's not in my spell check!) that said putting 2's in your life was good for creating couplehood so think I'll run with this new nick-name! 2