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Purplekat,
Looks like you got that old boys head turned around looking in your direction. It sounds like he is only looking though. Be careful. Never ever can you stop DBing. When H came home OW was lurking in the wings. Waiting for him after work. One night she called and was yelling at him I am going to make your life miserable. I got upset. He sort of went into depressed mode becuase he upset me. It hurts him to make me sad now. The next day I got up dressed look great felt great he got up and I said to him why do you feel you have to have that person hanging around is it your feel good fix or are you afraid I might leave you and you are afraid to be alone. I want you to know I love you and I am not going anywhere. He started to cry held me said I dont want to go anywhere this is my home and I love you all he wanted to cancel the day with drywaller coming I said no we are going to have him come and have a great day working on the basement. That is exactly what happened.

He just called me to say the other house is sold, I asked if he was ok with that he said, Yes, that was a sad time of our lives and I dont want it hanging around us. I love you very much. I know I dont tell you all the time but I really love you. I said bye see you soon.

I am going to start working on my new ring. I threw the other one away when I found out about the affair and I am patiently waiting for my new one. I wouldnt be this far along had I not discovered Michele Weiner Davis. She is simply the best

You have to keep the relationship alive.
Good Luch,
Loretta

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Hi Loretta,

I had to smile about the flowers in your vase. Sounds great!!

Rap

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Rap,
I just needed to get that first punch and I new the rest would follow. He loved how excited I was when I got them and how much he gets in return for that simple little gesture. I feel like I am in Relationship 101 class. Take care I am following your sit.
Loretta

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