Good for you ChrisJ!! Sounds like you have moved a few more baby steps forward with W.
At this stage in the reconcilliation process I know you have the patience and skills for what it takes; or you wouldn't be where you are now! May you find those tools and put them to good use - I know you will!
Sounds great! boy are you good at dramatizing your thread
I want to thank you AGAIN for being here for me for so many months along this roller coaster journey. your thoughts as well as Rondos ride, the cheers discussions and some events in my life recently have inspired me to the thoughts I have had today.
Last night for the first time in such along time my W spend most of the night sleeping cuddled next to me. In the morning she gave me a big hug and told me how well she slept.
Chris thank you for posting that! that just brought a big smile to my face and a warm feeling to my heart! there was once a time you probably thought nothing of that huh... such little things we take for granted can later become our most desired fantasy.
We had another session yesterday and I am realizing now that the seesions themselves are helping but more importantly the structure they provide and the security of a plan is helping my W slowly get her trust in me back.
After each seesion we seem to take a few steps forward and we do it together.
I don't have any drama for my thread today just a few thoughts..
Its been a few weeks since we have chatted. You sound like your doing well and I am very happy for you. Proceed with caution!!! I know I am not telling you anything that you haven't already heard before but keep up the DBing and things will keep going in your direction. We must not let our guard down even for a minute.
