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Gawd, I feel like such a stalker...I have one of honeypot, too. And annette.

Oh, and I also have a pic of atldave's family, and him on his bike. Geeze...his wife is really hot.

Thank goodness GEL left before finding out about my online non-porn activities.

Hairdog, who probably has a picture of YOU!

Ooooh...you could really piss people off and just post the whole photo album on here and save everyone time! Tee hee

See, I didn't even think to save them. You really are a stalker! Lol At least a funny and handsome one. Ah! more other validation! I'm on a roll now.

chromosphere:

Not sure I have a good digital photo of myself, and 2, not sure how I would load it. Now, my kids could probably do it inside of 30 seconds!

I will never post anyone else's photos. As long as they continue paying me not to.

I also have Corri's, and, for those of you who recall, the wonderful SuperDave.

Hairdog

honeypot:

I guess then maybe what I am thinking is that I am not "other validating". I love the feeling of being desired, but the lack of desire does not make me think any less of myself. So I guess this whole desire thing pumps up me ego, but the lack of it does not push it down?

So am I still "Other validating" in a negative way?

We also need to see Stigmata's and Blackfoot's pics, for ultimate proof that they are not the same person.

And Cemar, figure out that camera, wouldya!

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I still have a picture of you saved on my hard drive from that first pic-swapping period a couple of years ago.

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Well, I could probably remember your real name if I thought about it real hard, so I guess we're even .

You can upload it if you want. I think it would be best if you "accidentally" uploaded on a page of family photos for which your wife has the URL. That would get you in the crucible! Seriously, that would be cool if you linked it here, I think I over-scanned my copy with some other stuff. I don't want to have to think about whether I should upload a new picture that makes me look good so I can get validation or one that makes me look bad in order to prove that I am beyond the need for validation.

Hairdog, who thinks chromo is highly overrated, merely because of his "member-ship."

Darn HD you had to bring that up again!

Ah penis envy no wonder you made mention of the barracudda's taking a bite off of the poor fellow while he was on vacation.

I want to be desired, but "Other Validation" is bad

What do think of as other validation Cemar that it would all be bad?

Having someone take a double take as you walk by is validation . There is nothing bad in that. (unless it is because your clothes don't match)

Yea yea, Chrome whatever. You get all the validation and all I get is lust over the food I was eating at the time. Although, in a totally "non brokeback mountain" way, you are quite the rugged man's man. The idea that you have issues with your perception of your attractiveness seems bizarre to me.