Well yesterday my W called me I had talked to her I was in a good mood she was having problems, with her hip hurting. I was extra nice to her. I went home she had been talking about myspace so I looked at her account, It only said in a relationship. I told her that mine said married, and if she only wanted to claim to be in a R than we need to set some ground rules. (oh also the guy she is living with put in a R on his also) So that raised suspisons. I asked her to call me back. At this point I was upset so I decided to turn my phone off and it was better that I didn't speak to her. So she comes over to my house and I was across the street at a mutual F house. So I talked to her about the whole thing I was up front and honest with her I told her if she didn't feel like being married that we don't have to be I can acccept it and move on. She said she wants to be married to me. I told her that was fine but she shouldn't be looking for the benifits of being married while claiming she's not. Than we left it at that. I told her that I was going to talk to our F for a little while longer, than go home and go to bed. I went over and they invited me out for Sushi, I have no food or money right now so I accepted. My W got upset with me. We talked for a bit and ended when a call interupted us. So I told her I would talk to her later, she called while I was asleep and apologized to me for being so mean to me and she said that she changed her account to married, and that she would call me tommorrow.
Well today is our anniversary, I'm confused about things W came over to let me see S for a couple min. I talked to him and gave her some meds. to help with the hip pain. She told me we were doing excellent. I don't know what her version of excellent is but if we are doing good I would like her to spend more time with me, and trying to make it work rather than saying she wants it to work. Should I do anything at this point?
Ok W is saying we are doing good she has been really depressed recently I have been try to get her to spend sometime with me but just throwing little hints to her. She comes over fro 2 min. than leaves I was hoping to spend at least an hour or 2 with her, or maybe even a date would be nice. Is there any suggestions on what I can do to try to spend more time with her?
