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Hi ladies! Only have a minute to post. Always, glad to see yur success! Great week....and keep drinking that water! I am getting in 5-6 servigns of fruits and veggies a day, 3 to 5 cups of green tea now and 100+ ounces of water. I am keeping my calories under or around 1200 a day.

This morning's results for the week: Lost 1 1/2 pounds Not too great......but better then nothing!

Keep up the good work everyone. My sister Becca-remember our pinky swear!!!!!!!

~SE

YAY!!!!! GO SE!!! I am so proud of you!!!!

Great Job! Although I think I found those pounds I got them. LOL! My H had the kids this weekend and took me out to eat at chinatown Saturday and then Sunday for brunch and then we got pizza for dinner. Well you get the picture. Oh soo full.

Went running because I am stressing out. I was thinking today what if this is it? What if he never comes back? I know, great way to start the week nice and positive.

SH--you were wonderful to post to my thread today, you too SE...it meant a lot when having a mini-meltdown. I so appreciate having strong, wonderful women in my life. Thank you.

The motto for this week...NO STRESSING over M. We are strong women, we are beautiful women, we are worthy women. We will make it through this. But, we need to exude these things through our every action and pore. We are FAB CHICKS deserving of a fabulous life. We WILL get it. Hold your head high, stand tall, laugh hearty, smile often.

Every time any of us gets down (Becca, where are you for this feminist cry??!!) we will immediately think of 3 things that make it SO not worth our time to feel down. We will think of 3 things that make us fabulous, wonderful females. We will repeat: Life is short, I'm better than this drama of a life. I'm not creating it now, so I won't live the stress of it.

OK, I'll go roar in my bathroom now. I hope that the 2 of you do the same.

Feeling great gals...good days ahead of us.

God I hope so! I am really wondering (again) what is going on with H.

If you would like to check out my drama it is "contradictions are making my head spin"

SweetHeart...what forum? I'll find ya!

OK, had about 2 glasses of wine and no dinner...had a few chips with H (during his nervous fit)....liking the buzz

Hey, a gal can have fun, right?

Spent time with a dear, wonderful female friend...Had a nice evening talking about life, meditation, confidence, being the women we want to be. What a nice evening!

I believe I am in the newcomers section. Or you can just click on my name at the left and see my postings for contradictions are making my head spin.

I have been making my tea but the kids love it so I am not sure how much I have actually been drinking.

I am in a better state of mind than I have been in, this should last for a day or so. Unless... Could it be.... Am I detaching again? (Can you detach if you are still getting busy with your not at home H?) Maybe it was the sex but I feel really calm inside.

Anyway I didn't work out today I plan on doing sit ups and push ups after I get my little darlings to bed. Then I plan on going to aerobics class tomorrow. I am trying to GAL again. I was doing great, before my H came home and then left 2 weeks later, I can do it again.

I did better yesterday and today. I am down 1 lb.

I went to a tanning bed today. I don't want to go much because I actually have baby skin for a 30 year old and I don't want to get all leathery. Besides, i don't care for the dark, fake tan. I just want some color. Besides, H has commented that me being tan turns him on.

I also went and had my hair redone today, since they screwed it up last time. she is doing a free set of highlights for me tomorrow also. I got my eyebrows waxed.

Now, if I could wave my magic wand and have this extra weight fall off, i could break some hearts. Yeah right.

Why do you think I tan? Did you put the sticker on yourself? Those look cute and they drive the men folk crazy. Good idea taking it easy at first. I hope you only went for half the time. It takes a few visits before you can go a full 20 min.

congrats on the pound every little bit counts!

Yeah, i only did 8 minutes. Next time is 10 minutes. I did not use a sticker, but sure thought about it. What is the best shape and where is the best place to put it?