Reading this I remembered some things we did years ago. Was kinda fun!
There would be a TV show we'd want to watch. Every commercial we'd do something physical....from a little to a lot!!!! Then when the show would come on we'd stop whatever we were doing on a dime and just crack up!
It was actually a fun little game we developed and rememebering it warms me up. It also kept the heater going too!
Another wonderful evening - I am so proud of my woman! One of the things I said to her in my email yesterday was that last Monday night was like rain in the desert, when afterward all the wildflowers bloom and transform the desert into a wonderland. Yup, that's what I feel like this morning! Once again, two very happy people slept very well last night!
Yes I know there will be other issues and setbacks, but I am SO enjoying this moment!
It doesn’t begin in the bedroom, F’ing might but sex begins long before that. It begins with a look in the grocery store, or picking out something that has meaning to the other person to wear. It is an attitude AND actions. Holding hands or a grope, even sliding your hand into the other persons back pocket while walking doesn’t necessarily have sexual connotations but doing lends to an overall feeling that leads to good sex.
The best sex I ever had started days earlier, with a promise , a kiss, and a look in the eyes that almost made me explode (That came later!!). I don’t know what was the bigger turn on the anticipation, or knowing that she was willing AND wanting.
Sex doesn’t stop with an orgasm either.. It should continue with the kisses and skin to skin connection. Pulling out , and jumping up to go to the bathroom is for a quickie not for good sex. Laying and kissing helps cap thing off like having the after dinner wine caps a fine meal. Sometimes the feelings are so strong that there are seconds.
What is my point? I think that many of the HD partners can’t figure out a way to get their partners to understand that the ‘action’ of ‘f’ing’ isn’t good sex, it is PART of good sex.
Then when the show would come on we'd stop whatever we were doing on a dime and just crack up! 
