I'm around.. thanks for asking about me. I have a thread over in surviving, but I dont post often. I still come to the BB though and keep up with you, WCW and a couple of others. Don't have much input though!
Things are good here.. better really for the most part. XH has moved out and the kids are getting on a regular visitation schedule. It hasnt been easy, but the tension level for everyone is better. XH still isnt going to IC, or changing for the most part. I'm satisfied that the rigth decision was to end our R so that we can all move on and heal. Every day gets a little better. I cant say I really miss him or the turmoil, but sometimes I miss having a R. For the most part though, it's a relief!
Glad to see things are looking up some in your sitch!