Quote: Detachment is key. You must do it for you. It is wonderful that she is begining to see what she has done. As others have said, give her time to reflect. Don't push her ( R talks ) just do as you can, being there for her - to LISTEN. Time is on your side...
Its so easier said then done. Funny even after divorce it seems we still need eachother. She cant count on her family and mine are not all of that either. So contact is a must and ill try to detach but its sooo hard.
