Amazingly enough, my husband got most of it removed from the carpet with Resolve. One suggestion for you, we used Magic Eraser to get black sharpie off of our banister and a door and it worked really well!
Everything's going all right, I had a one sided conversation with H to let out all these feelings I've been holding in and even though it was one sided, it seemed to have helped a bit. I'll do a proper update later this weekend. Hope you have a good christmas!
No solo de pan vive el hombre
Y no de excusas vivo yo.
OK, OK I'll give you a hint: green and blue Sharpie artwork all over our brand new (less than a month old) natural birch kitchen cabinets. I found the tip about the isopropyl alcohol on the internet, and figured it was worth a try. I was absolutely stunned that it actually worked. It completely cleaned off.
Thanks for tips! The magic eraser worked like a charm for bathroom floor - I don't know why I didn't think of it. GGB, that is amazing! I'm so glad you were able to restore your new cabinets!
Well, Christmas is over and now we only have the New Year's to get past and all the holiday hub-bub will be over. Overall, a mediocre holiday. Nothing horrible and nothing I'll remember for the rest of my life. I had some irritating moments with H about his horrible attitude. He kept complaining and saying how much he hates Christmas, blah, blah, blah. Why did this make me angry? Because he talks like this in front of our kids. It's not exactly what I want them to remember about their holiday with family.
Now to my personal relationship with him. Some improvement. I think sometimes he gets frustrated when he's not able to climax and thus pushes me away. Over the last week, the 2 times we've been intimate he actually was able to climax and afterwards has been very snuggly and lovey with me. Maybe the pressure to preform is affecting our sex life? Maybe the condoms are part of the problem because both of these times, condoms were not involved. I was on birth control but when we moved and lost insurance I ran out. So now I'm waiting for my health insurance to kick back in so I can get a new presciption. Now I'm on pins and needles hoping a new life doesn't come out of this. My husband and I seem to be a VERY fertile couple. Son was conceived within 1 month of when we began our sexual relationship. Daughter was conceived 1 week after I miscarried a child who was conceived the first month we tried. As my best friend says, I'm hyperfertile
Well back to work for me after my short update. Have a great day everybody
No solo de pan vive el hombre
Y no de excusas vivo yo.
Mystia, You might look into Natural Family Planning. It is free (well other than the cost of the course). Basically, you track your waking temperatures, your cervical mucus, and the position/firmness of your cervix (optional, but it helps narrow down the fertile times0, and then abstain from any genital contact during the few days you are fertile. It is more work than other methods, but it also avoids the cost and potential for medical side effects.
The Couple to Couple League has the best information we could find. Don't let the religious aspect of their program turn you off, their program is good, and well presented. If you follow the program and are good about abstaining during your mucus patch, you'll avoid pregnancy.
For us, the hard part has been the abstinence for those couple of days, because it also happens to be the only time Mrs GGB gets horny.
Yes we had a wonderful Christmas, and it included plenty of nookie too. Friday, we were out doing some last minute shopping at Barnes and Noble. We happened to wind up in the sex books aisle (not intentionally), and Mrs GGB stopped, and started picking up the books and browsing through them, then showed me one called something like Cosmo Kama Sutra, and asked me if we should get it for Christmas. You coulda knocked me over with a feather (she did get it, and we've got it on our night stand now. She woke me up this morning with a "there's a position I want to try" Woohoo!). Something has changed in her, and I am liking it. Now I've got to get better about the acts of service to make sure she is getting spoken to in her LL too. So, yeah, this is the best Christmas I can remember.
Oh, you probably meant with all the kids. Yeah, that was fun too, although I did get a bit stressed yesterday when the toy casualties started mounting. The dog chewed a couple of parts to some of the new toys, some things got broken, the house is trashed etc. Still, not as stressed as in previous years because of the big differences in our R this year.
I gotta go. Time to throw the laundry in before she gets home so she doesn't have to do it.
