Quote: PS - Knock it off with the chocolate, ladies. I'm alone here and still in love with a woman who could care less about me in the same way. Grr, frustration, grrr (now swooning over Chromo, heh).
Sorry did not mean to be messing with your head We were just talking about being hungry and some good foods to feast on!
--Um-hum. I know the hunger of which you speak in those "chocolate and caramel" posts.
Of the carnal variety. Naughty naughty girls. Almost made me run down to the puppy store again with my blanket. tsk tsk.
-Stigmata-
PS - Oh, wait, I remember now. You're right. After you guys started posting recipes on this thread my eyes glazed over. Got rid of my frustration quite nicely.
The difference between a warrior and an ordinary man is the warrior views everything as a challenge; the ordinary man views everything as either a blessing or a curse.
-Yaqui shaman Don Juan-
...and that holds 2x true for nice guy wussies, DJ
PS - Oh, wait, I remember now. You're right. After you guys started posting recipes on this thread my eyes glazed over. Got rid of my frustration quite nicely
Glad to be of some form of service to you! Lowering ones frustration level allows there blood pressure to lower also.
Just the fact that us minons did not feel inclined to jump to BF's side and aid our beloved in his defense should be enough for TSIN to get the hint it is not about what is being said but how it is being said. So I am with you why continue to try to see the light when he refuses to open his eyes.
Funny TSIN how many people you just don't like. Most of us here may disagree with each other at times yet we still like each other or respect each other.
I dont want you in my thread anymore. I cant enforce it but that is what I want.
I give my honest opinion of your Dominance/Submission remarks, and you let your "minions" answer and don't even bother yourself to respond
honest opinon? inciting others makes that debateable. even though we agree on it. I dont let or force or cause anyone here to do anything. I did respond. so to sum up your sentence the first comment was veiled, and furtive, the second one was a lie and the last one also was a lie.
Poof --be gone. I wont see you or hear you any longer.
"Also the men have been remarkable silent, all my male friends say ' you let him live with you? you idiot its all your fault, you deserve it.' and my male aquaintences say the typical 'dump the biatch'. Which prompts me to pick them up by their necks.... have some respect. I dont say that, (except to her face, with humor) dont you either. anyways.
--yikes. Just from the little I've read about OM he sounds like a toxic personality. Not evil, per se, just someone best kept beyond arm's reach. And did I read that right? He sent pics and love letters from your x via a holiday mass mailing to his 'friends'? WTF?
A. not respectful to your x -- even if she did give the green light.
B. (most importantly) uhhhh, can we say TOTALLY disrespectful to include your addy. in the email. Double-WTF? In my realm that is grounds for an azz-kicking.
***WARNING!***
A BF flaw just crossed my scope. Gotta harsh on ya and scramble the F18s to hit afterburn and light your azz up to the hard deck.
EGO...letting OM be roomie borders on egomaniacal...if left unchecked henceforth will reach egomegalomanaical. The Iliad is chocked full of such bloody hubris.
To US Swede, personally I do not see one blip of BF selfishness on my scope. As a matter of fact, I thinnk he goes out of his way to offer solutions/suggestions to those who will listen; that's the antithesis of selfish. Narcissist? Hmmm, iffy, need more data...
BEEP! [scope lighting up] What the...? sigh. Spoke too soon.
I just see now his banishment of TSinA from his post with his characteristic magician's flourish. tsk tsk. Now that's selfish, BF and ya damned well know it. [Stigmata quickly snatches BF's wand, snaps it in two, hands it back]
Back to this OM viking. Even if my x gave green light I would never reveal her inner thoughts about "us" "me" whatever to anyone else. God, nothing's sacred to this rogue. Friggin' automaton.
BF, if you get that D will you marry me? LOL. At least YOU can look past all the sparkly diamonds in my ring offer for a much deeper significance it would seem.
You been in Rikers awhile huh? LOL of course I will after your D, but I get to be dominant. ROFLMAO. You asked for that one. LOL. Gosh, I kill me.
--Well, I understand about people calling your x the B word; have heard them sent my x's way too. I won't say it cuz here on The Island everyone is a Biatch...on cell block C. So far I've managed by sleeping with a Frisbee down my shorts but the cig carton tally on me is reaching an impressive number. You'll have to stand in line.
Seriously, Belize I am so there. say when. we'll stay on Ambergris Caye , (oops I mean Ambergris Caye) I have some former students/friends there. Lots of english lasses to flirt with if your espanol is rusty. (Me llamo es piednegro. hmmm. no not quite right.) You bring clothes on back, leather flip flops, and beer money. I will bring scuba gear.
--I clicked the link and swore I heard seagulls and the smell of salty air and margaritas? Shaking head.
*Clothes on back: check. *leather flip flops: check. *Beer money: cash, not check.
Stig= PADI Advanced Diver certified....uh, in late 80s. cough.
On a serious note.
Have you made a decision yet? YOU have to make the decision. If you want to save your M and DB, it cannot be with hesitation or doubt. The outcome is irrelevant. What she thinks and does has to be irrelevant.
It can be done. Do you want to? Did you read break free, yet?
--As much as I hate doling out 50 ducats for "lazybone authors ether texts" I have it (Break Free) open right now on my comp. along with what will be the first of many opened beers. Wish I had this thing a couple years ago. Eyes forward, Stigmata.
Fridays, Saturdays, and Sundays have been BRUTAL on me. I'm just over 30 days alone and I know x is out and about somewhere in the city etc. and hard to do the thought-stopping. Weekend=fun, supposed to.
BTW, bonus text is a "she doesn't love you anymore" thing. Lot of same DB principals but worth the freebie I guess. I am DBing x but jury is still out as to my commitment level. More on this later. Post too long. Fingernails too long (chew, chew). Beer too full.
-Stigmata-
The difference between a warrior and an ordinary man is the warrior views everything as a challenge; the ordinary man views everything as either a blessing or a curse.
-Yaqui shaman Don Juan-
...and that holds 2x true for nice guy wussies, DJ
Hi bf- well, I was kind of watching this from a distance. I felt like one of those women who sits in the window about four stories up and watches a fight on the street below. But since you ask my opinion, tomorrow I'll go back and read the thread more carefully and see if I have an opinion as to content. Off the top of my head, I can't figure out what TS's problem is. Often people post stuff here and someone doesn't answer right away (or at all). Sometimes people read in a hurry or miss a post. Too tired to re-read at the moment, but I'll get to it tomorrow. I do know that interacting with flamers is usually pretty unrewarding.
He sent pics and love letters from your x via a holiday mass mailing to his 'friends'?
This occured after she told him she would no longer have any more contact with him. He then sent said items to our mutual friends. her, me, them. Not really relevant to anything, other then his character and their R. Predictable. Proving black widow skill, and superiority (biological value) over H of affairee. it was ignored by all, as far as I know.
In my realm that is grounds for an azz-kicking.
another story, though no actually physical was done. maybe in belize, I would love to be a part of chromos class, undoubtably not possible.... hmmm may just insinuate self into group via smarmy personality...
I just see now his banishment of TSinA from his post with his characteristic magician's flourish. tsk tsk. Now that's selfish, BF and ya damned well know it.
I was very clear and explicit with TSinA. more then once. keep up the negativity, bye bye. It was done with as little fuss as possible. No apologies. Selfish? I believe boundary control is oftentimes. I didnt say anything about his argumentative convos with others. The post that incited this reaction from me was to me. I do see that he doesnt 'get it' seems to be trying, but wont lose the argumentative negativity. and lying to prove point. not dealing with lying.
assuming you could snatch said magicians wand, as if a wizard would need such a thing, breaking it would render me incapable of bringing TS back should negativity cease...... dont get to hasty with me....
Stig= PADI Advanced Diver certified....uh, in late 80s. cough.
No worries. BF = technical scuba instructor. NASDS, SSI, ANDI. Mixed gasses, rebreathers, if possible underwater its covered. 19 years exp., was commercial fishing diver in AK. You can entrust me with your 10 year (age limit due to rules) old first born, or your 103+ father. My eldest student so far was a 86 year young, non swimmer. first love, hobby now, backseat to making the benjis.
Not going to comment on anyways opinion of my part in M/D mess, yet. Still waiting for Lils comments.
Lil
I was asking for your opinon of my actions in M/R/A. I want to know your opinion because you are a woman, the personality type I percieve you as, and the life experiences you have had.
I know people miss posts and intent of sometimes. thats why I asked you directly 3rd time. after that I would have moved on. I too was watching fray from afar untill attempt was made to include me. Dont enjoy beating on the defenseless, so its easier to change reality to not include their existance in mine.
Thanks.
For everyone else it was a free shot at BF.(your enjoyment in taking said shots is yours and is secondary academic interest to me.) No shields necessary ever for women, this time none needed for men either, prestated. (again academic interest in those who used.)
I have many flaws, things to work on also. thank you HD, while I was asking for opinions referring to my actions in M/A, I am making an attempt to improve my writing style. Positive things can come from missing someones intent....
Stigmatas misunderstanding's, reinforce your statement.
Jeez Stig, do you write essays for a living or what? It is good to see your style change too though, now that you are time strained to get in a response. Its been so long since I was in the writers seat.... ah well content, and intent are more important then the appearance of conveyance..... still I'll keep working on it HD. forgive my flying finger skips, misses, trips and fumbles...
Its been so long since I was in the writers seat.... ah well content, and intent are more important then the appearance of conveyance..... still I'll keep working on it HD. forgive my flying finger skips, misses, trips and fumbles...