Dying in dreams doesn't usually mean dying, it means a new phase in life, i.e, something has ended and now there is another part of your life which you have to do.
The frozen sea means your R's are all iced up, the cliff is a warning not to take risks, or a warning of something unpleasant happening in an R, such as an argument. Dropping a cup and coffee is usually the same, arguments with people.
Fur has different interpretations depending on what type of fur it was, the colour etc.
Thanks for your interpretations. I had those dream with the OW years ago, and hadn't had it before my H left. We were married for 27 yeass before he left. The D has been final for 7 months. He is actually with a woman with blonde hair, she is not as tall or thin as in my dream however. He did buy a house with a built in pool. They are not living together at this point. I'm waiting for the dream saying he will be back, !!!! That he likes the changes I have made with myself. So far haven't had any of those.
It looks like you will have great thread going here.
Well, he might not actually say so in the dream; it might be very symbolic or coded as dreams sometimes are. I have pasted a few symbols of reconcilation out to show you the kind of things that signify happy conclusions:
Love, dating, romance and marriage dreams
Love: If you dream you are in love it is a happy omen of success and joy. If it is an illicit love affair, you will suffer disappointments through your own behaviour. It may be prophetic of an affair or marriage problems, or you may be bored with your sex life and need to talk to your partner. If you watched others making love it means success and good fortune.
Kiss: A kiss is a symbol of great joy, love and happiness. If the kiss was insincere, it portends disappointments or a broken love affair. Kissing babies means you will be successful in your undertaking. Avoiding a kiss from someone you dislike means a minor illness.
Hug: If the hug was platonic and friendly, it means relief from worry, if it was a passionate hug, there will be an important change in your life.
Shaking hands: This signifies reconciliation and renewal of an old relationship or friendship.
Nudity: The stripping bare of your soul. If you were naked, this means you will have a stroke of money luck or be successful in matters of the heart. If you saw others naked, it means they are hiding their true feelings from you.
Dinner: Going out to dinner is good luck if you eat with other people, bad luck if you eat on your own.
Restaurant: If the restaurant was posh then it means financial struggle. If it was average then it portends social pleasures for you. If it was a ‘greasy spoon’ style café, you can expect an increase in your income.
Flowers: Wild flowers signify love, joy, happiness. A new love affair. Potted flowers mean fertility, a baby. The vase symbolises the womb, the flowers growing up from it, the baby. This could mean you will give birth to an actual baby or that you will give birth to an idea or artistic creation of some kind.
Tea: Tea is a good omen, meaning social popularity. The same applies to iced tea. If you drank it from a teapot, it means a happy surprise.
Wine: Drinking wine predicts happiness and prosperity.
Engagement/wedding ring: To see a ring means a new love affair, great love and happiness. To lose your ring or break it means a broken relationship.
Wedding: Straight forward wish fulfilment on the part of the dreamer. He or she has a strong romantic attraction to someone. The uniting of the masculine and feminine aspects of yourself. Sometimes this can be prophetic and portend an actual wedding.
Bride: It is very lucky to dream of being a bride or see a bride in your dream, unless her dress was torn or dirty, then it is an omen of broken relationship.
Groom: As above, unless his suit was torn or dirty.
Bridesmaid: There will be a delay to your plans and a disappointment, but you will sort it out and then be able to get on with your romance.
Wedding Cake: Any kind of cake in a dream is good. It means love, joy, happiness. Success to the person who eats it.
Dancing: Dancing suggests a positive attitude to life, joy, sexuality, freedom. Great success in love affairs.
Christmas Tree: reconciliation (unless it was Christmas when you dreamt it).
Spoons: domestic bliss.
Numbers which symbolise reconcilation: 2 (partnership number), 5 (means change of course, so good if you are already separated), 6 (domestic happiness).
I had a dream myself last night that was a bit weird.
I was at this school with Andy and we were both dressed in kid's uniform (!) and sitting next to each other in this big hall, about to listen to this lecture, when I ran away crying.
Then all these scabs started appearing on Andy's face and he was looking in the mirror, saying, OMG, what's happening to my face!?
Then I was at a clinic and these nurses were trying to make me have a scan because they said if there was a baby they would get rid of it. Then they started shouting at me about how I already had 4 so I shouldn't have 5. I shouted back that I am a good mother and just because I am disabled doesn't mean I can't look after them, and that when I was a kid I used to cycle to school on my own.
I jumped off the scanning table and ran away, saying that they weren't going to scan me just to kill my baby.
Then I saw this pregnancy test and the two pink lines came up really strong and filled the entire room.
Then I saw another pregnancy test which was new and hadn't been taken out of the wrapper yet.
Then I woke up.
School is usually about spiritual lessons to be learned by me (and Andy, since he was there), past R's and my difficulty in getting away from past R's. Crying is good - emotional release, good luck, joy.
Scabs - maybe my dream revenge? Or something eating away at his soul. The traditional interpretation is good luck and money but not sure about that one.
Clinic - me not trusting the dr's, maybe the dream is telling me I am still pregnant and not to let them tell me otherwise? Telling me not to take those pills.
The stuff about being a good mother - me defending myself.
The cycling when I was a kid - true, an actual childhood memory. I did cycle to school on my own (on a bike with hand pedals instead of foot pedals).
I thought I'd post here since, after a decent hiatus from dreams with my WAW in them, I've started up again recently.
Early on after the bomb drop, I had dreams that, upon awakening, left a lingering sad feeling. Then I got to the place where, after such a dream, I woke relieved that it was only a dream. Big difference.
But lately, I've had these dreams: We went to a restaurant. Normal stuff, nice place. We were waiting on a table, and the last I remember, we were being escorted to our table. It was a pleasant dream. Didn't see any meaning in it upon awakening.
A couple of weeks later, I had a dream that I was putting her on a flight to Japan and bidding her goodbye. Perhaps that meant that I was accepting that she was going far away from me and letting her go?
Then a few nights ago, started having a dream concerning the OM. I've never met him. But in the dream, there he was all nice-like, looking younger than he is in real life, better than he is real life... just sitting there.
Then last night, again with the OM, this time though my ex is telling me how anyone he loves is captivated by him.
I realize dreams are the creation of the dreamer, and my daily conscious thoughts don't include the OM. What I do know of him is that he's a commitment phobe, dorky, older, and she's always looked upon him as a mentor, she's known him for decades. I don't know why my dreams are going there, just when I thought my unconscious was working out letting her go.
I havent had many dreams about the X for quite some time but last night was a chamge. I dreamt I was watching the kids at her house as usual when she came home from work. She closed the bedroom door and showed me this new bra she had. It was made of clear vinyl and was completely see through. All I could say was " wouldnt that just make you sweat?" I think it means I just want my X to show me her boobs again, LOL!
Sorry, just feeling in need of a little levity today, heh, heh.
Bruce, can I clarify something? Was it you who dreamt of snakes etc or are you referring to something on here?
Holding hands is a very good sign, traditional interpretation means reconciliation, but it may mean a return to a good friendship with XW rather than actual reconciliation - that's still a very positive sign, though!
Restaurants are good luck as long as you were eating in company, which you were. Future contentment etc. If it was a cafe, it means your income will increase soon, but if it was a posh restaurant, then not.
Japan usually means that an unusual circumstance or piece of information will take you by surprise. You are right about the airplane - they are all about change and transition. Taking off usually means major change, death of a situation etc, travelling in one (or someone else travelling in one) is a transition phase between one part of life to another, and landing in an airplane can sometimes signify a birth or the start of a new life phase or project, so it sounds as if it was you 'letting her go'.
What she said about the OM may be what she actually thinks or what she will tell you soon, perhaps she was captivated by him and now she's disolusioned? Andy often says stuff in my dreams which don't make sense at the time and then he later says it in real life.
She may be about to split up with him or something else happen regarding him that you aren't aware of yet, and that's why you are dreaming of him.
