Thanks for the comments. The whole book is extremely powerful. Read about it on amazon. You may want to get it. It's a novel set in South Africa. Very troubling with many issues tackled in a small space. I'm having a hard time with it...
My husband is divorcing me because I never gave him enough sex.He expected me to initiate it every time,and when he did,it would be when I was already asleep (and I don't go to sleep early),one time even at 2am.I made up for that incident by initiating it the next morning.I had made an effort the last couple weeks before he dropped the bomb to have sex every night,I even bought some new sexy lingrie and pranced around with it on and in high heels.
When he said he had had it I was totally taken by surprise,said I pushed him to sleep with someone else.
I was so confused a couple nights after that I practically tried to rape him,but he said that he didn't want to have sex with me anymore and that he had made up his mind that it was over.
I don't even know why I'm writing on this thread but I thought it went with the topic.
He's not having an affair,he just said he wanted some pu$$y.He admitted that he's been talking to someone when I asked him,but that they are not having sex.Even though I'm DB'ing,this seems to be happening so quickly and he is ready to ship me back to where I came from (Europe).Why is it that now that I have made myself available to him and have expressed my feelings on having a better sexual relationship with him,he dosn't want me?Is he crazy or am I missing something?
Quote: .Why is it that now that I have made myself available to him and have expressed my feelings on having a better sexual relationship with him,he dosn't want me?Is he crazy or am I missing something?
Sometimes the harder you try, the more he pulls away because he knows he can get away with it.
Quote: I practically tried to rape him,but he said that he didn't want to have sex with me anymore and that he had made up his mind that it was over.
Instead of being super sexy right now, just try to improve the friendship. It is less pressure on both of you.
Quote: He expected me to initiate it every time
That does not sound right. When someone initiates all/most of the time, that is not fair.
Quote: he is ready to ship me back to where I came from (Europe).
Which country? I don't know how long you can stay as a X wife, but how about as a college/ Vo_Tec student? Nurses are in demand.
