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Re:cinemanymph H went to the employee clinic for what he thought was a pulled muscle, but turned out to be chest pain.
Sorry to hear about H's trouble. I hope they caught it in time.

I fell down on the job today.
I don't see it that way CN. You wer not born with one of those things glued to you were you?

If you were born that way, I hope your mom had a C section. A V delivery might have been painful.

And Custer could have used one before he attacked the Indian tribes at the present day "Little Big Horn" battlefield.

(local humor, which means something like "would have been nice but it didn't happen that way in real life". We do the best that we can at the time, not knowing what will happen 5 minuets from now)

CN, you were being a mom at the time your H called. Which hat goes on the top or bottom of the importance pile is difficult to determine ahead of time.

Lou

Hope everything is okay. I am a little worried you didn't post back yesterday. Praying for you and your husband.

Sorry about the thread hijacking, but I just had to say:
No one wanted to go out on a limb and tell him that drinking 12 beers every night was a bad thing.
Hello? McFly? Someone needs to TELL you that? A half-case of ANYTHING every night would be bad for you! Was he trying to build a barn out of empty beer cans?

Hi all,

Thank you so much for the hugs and support. Turns out that the clinic doc was just trying to cover his a$$. The EKG they took at the clinic was normal for H and everything checked out at the ER normally. So it is back to a pulled muscle and a day off from work.

Lil,
I do not know if the doc would talk to H about his drinking, but would be willing to put a bug in his ear prior to H's next physical.

Re: the cell phone. Thanks for the validation that I did nothing wrong by not having it with me. I was scared that my laxness with the cell would cost us this time. I have a history of forgetting to take it, not turning it on, and letting the battery run down. H gets pretty cranky with me when he can't get ahold of me. Which I was sure wasn't doing him any good yesterday. As soon as he called me with an update I told him I loved him.

All is well here, H wanted to ML this AM to make sure everything was in working order.

Tomorrow is Hs birthday. I have to get to planning so we can celebrate.

Thanks to my cyber friends who were there for me, you are the best. xoxo

Cin, glad everything is fine. My point about the drinking is that sometimes people are more receptive to hearing stuff from the doc after they've had an ER scare than they are during a regular physical.

You don't have to keep your cell phone glued to your body, but please make a habit of keeping it charged and on. You said, I have a history of forgetting to take it, not turning it on, and letting the battery run down. Don't do this anymore, k? This sounds a teeny bit passive-aggressive.

Great News!...*hugs*

Cin

Glad to hear your H is fine. Pulled muscles do suck though.
Hope he had a good birthday also.

So you never did say was everything still working? lol

I to am pretty lax on my cell phone. Heck don't even know where it is half the time. Hardly ever take it with me and when I want to it is usually dead so poohey to it. I did not need one before I had one and I still don't need one just one more bill. lol

Cine,

Whew! Hang in there girl! What a scary thing.

Karen

cinemanymph;

I'm glad nothing srrious with H. I'm glad your not taking the out break at you hard. I hope you keep doing good.

Hi all,
Everything was in good working order. ML twice on Friday.

Nothing since. H told me that I was bothering him by crowding him in bed. I thought I was being affectionate. I told him that I would stay on my side until he invited me over to his side, so far he hasn't. Maybe he didn't want birthday sex? I don't know what to do, H is avoiding me and won't let me touch him. I am sooooo confused. I thought we were going gangbusters and both of us were enjoying ourselves immensly.

H golfed on his birthday leaving at 5:30 AM to meet his golf partner at 6. I decided to clean out his workshop for him in lieu of buying a gift. All our holiday decorations, party stuff, and bunch of other things we had no other place to store were in there. I thought if he had a room in the house with just his things, a place where he could go and just putter with whatever struck his fancy would be much better than a golf shirt that he would buy himself anyway. So I got up when he left and got started. The boys and I worked all day and we were proud of the job we did. H was so angry that we didn't go out and buy him something that he didn't speak to me until the next AM when I confronted him about being a jerk. I told him he could sit there and be mad or get two birthdays for the price of one. I cooked him an awesome breakfast, a great lunch and took him out for prime rib, we came home and watched a movie he wanted to see. We took a predinner shower together and nothing. Two months ago H didn't care if I'd had a shower in two days he couldn't get enough, no matter what. Now that I really am enjoying being with him, he doesn't want me. If there was a crying icon I'd put it here. What do you all make of this?