I see nothing wrong with putting your foot down. Our WAS's have made choices, they need to start living with them. You are not a back-up plan, a safety net, a left-handed reliever who can come in and help him get out of an inning (What?).
More drama.... Well, H swore that he did not go to Vegas with OW and spend time with her. Well, I happened to see an email picture of them....they looked so much like a couple. I can't believe that he lied again. If nothing is wrong with the situation...why lie! He promise that they were not together...he went with the guys....I am so pissed! What an as*hole. I dont know what to do now