Update.....Things are going pretty good. My W has read the book SSM, and is also reading some others about dealing with past baggage. I too am reading. This time the UL book. It makes since, but it is very hard to not react and feel the feelings I have had for years whenever the W is not in the mood. I do see that I needed to read it. Many of the things I was taking as her being hurtful or unloving, were just old baggage on my part. If I could get rid of those reactions and not take those things in the same way, I think it would help us a great deal.
God is love, love is blind, Ray Charles is blind......so there.
