One of my biggest gripes was, in our sex starved days, we would finally have sex...usually in the middle of the night, initiated by him, while I was half asleep and I would beg to do it again the next day and he'd say "sure" and that would be the end of that for the next 6 weeks or so. It felt so lonely and wrong. Anyway, the next day or days I'd be dying to recapture a little of the mood we had set then..I wanted to hug him intimately, kiss, talk about how wonderful it was, etc.
But instead I found myself following his lead and acting as if nothing whatsoever had happened and would you like lemon chicken for supper, blah blah. I hated this! And I was irritated with myself for following along with this false sense of "sex, what sex?". But it was too awkward and weird to have brought it up and what would I have said, anyway.
So that is one thing that I am so grateful for now is that I don't have to pretend that nothing happened or do this artificial restraint thing, whereby I don't mention it or disguise the fact that I've just had a really good time.
Perhaps men don't act like that, I have no idea. I know in my own situation, acting like I had just really enjoyed that seemed to put me further off from it happening again soon.
Anyway, things are definitely progressing in your home.
Will you talk with her any more about it, or wait til counseling or what?
Geeze, HP, I think you o-d'd on the Vitamin EC. You are buzzing today.
Things are fine, I've not really talked about it with her, except to ask what was going through her mind before I got home, (she said she was horny), and yes, I'm sure we'll talk about it some more, either at home, or at the MC on Wednesday.
Hairdog, who think's HP needs to stay away from the Cadbury's.
Oh Hairy, I have SO OD'd on the EC this AM. My poor kids...they leave for a few hours with their grandparents and come home to find their stash decimated.
I was doing great on losing more baby weight up until yesterday and today, LOL.
Oh well, brace yourself, doggie. I just made a pot of Vitamin C to fight the coming EC crashdown. So there will be more to come from Spaz Girl, I think.
Quote: Believe me, I was in no way a groveling dog. Did I give that impression?
Was I grateful? Not really. Just, um, surprised.
Hairdog
OH no, HD...you didn't give that impression at all. But in your post you said that it may be months before it happens again, so I just want to make sure you aren't going to give off vibes like that at home...she needs to sense that ML is the norm.
I can't shake the memory of a conversation we had about two years ago when she said something like, "we'd make love, and then, two weeks later you'd be expecting it again."
Quote: Face it, Lillie. You're just jealous. I know you've been hot for me for a long time.
Dang! I thought I was hiding it so well! I've always been hot for uptight Jewish guys--kidding aside, I have. I thought the Joel-Maggie thing on Northern Exposure was one of the best sexual tension story lines ever found on tv. (And yes, I look just like Janine Turner... well, a cross between her and Julianne Moore. Right. )
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