I can't believe it, I don't know if I really thought this day would never come or what but....HE FINALLY INITIATED!!!
All on his own!
We had been watching a movie...when that ended I rolled over to go to sleep and low and behold he reached between my legs and began fondling me. Needless to say, I was one happy camper about that.
Granted, I had said something much earlier in the evening about if he thought we could ML that night, or did he think he'd be too tired...but that was the extent of it...I said nothing more.
So something I wasn't sure would ever happen, finally has....WOOOOO HOOOOOO!!!! I don't know how long it will be til it happens again, but for right now...I'm just enjoying feeling good!
Girl, if you lived closer, I would invite you in for a cuppa joe and we could clash our coffee mugs together and celebrate. (It's too early for beer, even for me, LOL)
Be sure to validate him and praise him. It is a fine line to walk..praising and doh! going overboard and freaking him out, but I know you can do it.
Here is what I do: Go easy on the "thank you's" as this seems to imply--to the both of you--that he did something that deserves thanks instead of something completely normal, but go heavy on the "I can't stop thinking about how hot you were last night!" stuff which will build confidence.
Alrighty, I'm off to fetch my coffee mug...be prepared for the virtual clank in about 5 minutes.
Yep, I'm ready for that virtual clank! I think I'm already on to what you're getting at. I actually said a few things (mid-coitus) last night that I think turned him on...that at the time I didn't even think about. About size etc. In retrospect if I were him it would have bolstered my ego LOL.
I forgot to tell you...CONGRATULATIONS! If he's a smart man, he'd do this way more often!! But, most of us guys aren't the brighest when it comes to pleasing you women.
He should realize how lucky he is to have you!! Let me at 'im!!
Thanks, that's much appreciated. Try to keep in mind...you and your W really aren't in a much different space than where my H and I started...if that's any encouragement to you whatsoever!
We still have quite some ways to go....but this was a sign of real improvement on our part :-)
GEL.....how awesome!!! Your H has jumped through a major psychological hurdle...what a wonderful success! The two of you are headed for many great nites together!!
