I made my attempt and it worked the first time after pretty much begging. I thought I had a breakthrough and wanted to keep on doing it but the second time around (tonight) I was turned down with such force and disgust that I am officially done with that approach. It's not even that I felt humiliated but the look on his face realy did it But hey! good luck to you.
There have been several people on here who have posted success in that area. You've been reading Mr/Mrs NOP's posts haven't you? Also there are now people who aren't posting any longer because they are currently experiencing success...therefore they don't need to come here.
I know my posts may not seem to reflect it, but my W and I are indeed making real progress. We have more laughs and good times now than we have in years. Which makes the lack of sex ALL THE MORE FRUSTRATING! To give a sports analogy, think about the Red Sox last year. It seemed they were in the driver's seat to beat the Yankees and go to the World Series. They were so close, had a really good team, but got beat again. Or my Cubs last year, so close to the World Series, but a dropped foul ball and the team unravels. They hurt so bad because of the length of the draught and the apparent improvements. It hurts a lot more when your team is eliminated on October 2 than when they are eliminated in late August.
Anyway, the Red Sox are World Champions (and it's maybe next year for us ) The Red Sox really were better this year and they were battle hardened. I believe the same is true for me.
Also, Wildebube has recently claimed great strides. And SuprDave? He's too busy boning the Mrs. to cry with us. And he was on the bench for 22 years.
Hang in there and lighten up .
Paul, who prescribes less Eeyore and more Pooh for CeMar
I hate to say this, but I have not seen much success on here. Some people have increased the frequency of sex, which is a start, but that is not my issue. I could increase my frequency by asking for sex or by scheduling sex, but that is not the problem. The problem is her personality, she has a LD personality that must change. I have not seen any LD women on here actually start to desire sex on their own. And the womens desire for sex is the keystone of any good marriage.
So, how about you defining success in two sentences so the rest of us can change our goals. Hell, I thought the Mrs and I had made it. Since we haven't, I sure want to address whatever is missing.
So, what is it?
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
Success is basically becoming HD. Now, I believe that increasing the frequency is a good FIRST step, but the ultimate goal is to change them to HD. I have lived with a women that has been both a HD and a LD. It is like living with 2 different woman. I even think about my wife in this fashion, there was my old wife and then there is the current wife. I want my old wife back, I can not stand the current wife.
Paul said, referring to the Cubs and next year's World Series:
Quote: Anyway, the Red Sox are World Champions (and it's maybe next year for us)
Paul, I've seen you depressed, I've seen you optimistic, I've seen you horny, and I've seen you distraught. This is the first time, however, that I've seen you delusional.
) The Red Sox really were better this year and they were battle hardened. I believe the same is true for me.
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