Wow you guys are harsh. I saw the personal ad as a joke which demonstrated his complete feeling of powerlessness. Fact or fiction, the young represent virility and enthusiasm. Something many of us are so desperately missing in our M’s.
I happen to think Barn is a pretty funny guy and if he wants to spend his time fantasizing about a 20 something yo chick, who am I to criticize!
Though I would tend to agree with the others and say that the fun starts when you get out of your twenties. I am much sexier now than I was then. I had horrible taste in lingerie, did not know much about a man's body, etc.
Thank you all for your kind comments. I'm sorry for offending the masses. I was making a joke with the personal ad thing simply to illustrate my desire for a R where sex is an important priority and the reality that I probably will never have that in my current M.
I offer my sincere apologies to those that I offended.
Now I feel bad for being b*tchy. Women about to turn 40 can be a bit "touchy" about the age thing. You don't really need a romantic ad like the one I posted. Just skip all the details you put in your original ad and simply submit a copy of your washing machine fantasy followed by "for much more of the same contact Mike."
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
Women absolutely get better with age. I’d take a fit and fashionable 40 year old over a 20 year old any day. Of course at this point I’d take just about anything…
I want to thank you all for your help. I have been thinking all day about the responses you posted to mine.
This thread was titled perfectly, although I had no idea at the time WHAT was for my own good. It is obvious to me that I no longer have anything to add to the BB discussion. Thank you for helping me see that.
Best of luck to you all. I have learned much from you. I appreciate your hard work and collective sense of humor. That one time of other validation was helpful, too.
Quote: It is obvious to me that I no longer have anything to add to the BB discussion.
Geeze, if that's what the board required, I would have been banned long ago! C'mon, barn, just because you got your ass kicked for wanting a sweet young thing doesn't mean we don't still want you around.
Every once in a while I even think about leaving my wife, and moving into a mobile home with a college girl. But then I realize I need to work on my current situation first.
Take a break if you need to, but please hurry back. You were one of the few who actually appreciated my sense of humor.
