Thank you very much, and hope your headache gets better. I know migraines are different than regular ones or sinus headaches, but still hope it gets better.
Annette who is getting a very big head with all these compliments
I am finally ready for the babe to vacate. Up until now, I've been too nervous about having 3 kids in this house to really want the baby to be born. Now I'm so sick of being pg that whatever else happens will be an improvement.
You do get to the point of it's ackward to move, sit, lay down, breathe, I remember that well. No one knew I was preggers until I started wearing maternity clothes at 7 months. I'm tall so the babies had lots of room to grow.
I have a question. Are you planning on having more children given the H's religious beliefs? If this is prying and none of my business, just tell me to go fly a kite.
Jo, Is Hell No a rude answer to your question? LOLOL!
Naw, we are not planning any more kids. We will not use anything to prevent kids but will not seek out trying to have any more either. Since I am infertile and have to use drugs to conceive I am not expecting any accidents. And yes, I have heard all the anecdotal evidence about previously infertile couples who suddenly became fertile. I am aware that it may happen, but...still...it is rare. I do know my body's fertility signs, just in case. I am just not expecting to see them!
We have been having sex for 11 years and have never used anything, not even once. We have (soon to be) 3 kids and have used fertility drugs 3 times. We have both tried to appreciate this preg in a "this is the last time" way, but I detest being preg and, well, you know H's problems with it, lol, so I guess you could say we have had varying levels of success with that.
We are both, however, totally looking forward to meeting this new lil' girl or boy; can't wait!
FrogMan, SORRY for the hijack. You know how chicks are....
Quote: This thread has degenerated into mass self pity. What happened to differentiation guys? You lot need a kick up the backside. Stop letting your LDs boss you around. That's why your not getting any. Frog, you're mad! Tell her straight to clean up the house - and to have it done by the time you get back from the pub. hd, Tell her you need the wood to build a sauna and love nest. SD - Wearing the trousers again in his R.
well, I could tell you to shove it up your bloody arse as HD suggested but the truth is: - telling her to do it results in me receiving the response hd suggested - if I don't do it nobody does it - i FREAKING HATE living in a nasty house. I am not overly picky but a mountain of dishes bothers me, and I like to wear clean clothes occasionally.
this ain't no self pity. I resent having to do all this. I resent having to jerk off. I am venting my resentment here while I give my W a chance to improve things - all the while, I concentrate on myself. If the home life doesn't improve, I'll be out of there. No self pity, just anger. I've done self pity before, and it was not all it's cracked up to be. I do like to bitch about things on the internet, though. Makes me feel better, and understand why women do it so much (wink, honeypot)
Don't worry about the hijack hp, I know how bad pregnancy feels for women (mine was sick (throwing up sick) all 9 months of both pg... There is justice, after all!
The differentiation song:
All I want to do
Is be more like me
And be less like you
Linkin Park
The hottie with the headache wrote: I must be ignorant, just can't figure out how our spouses can't figure out that they will get more out of us if we get more out of them. ----------------------
Annette, annette, annette. Don't you know it's all about UNCONDITIONAL LOVE? That means what the LDS does never matters! It's only about what the HDS does that counts.
Otherwise, it puts them under "pressure" or makes them feel like they're having to "work" for a positive result and therefore, destroys any feeling of connectedness in the R. At this point in the explanation, the HDS' correct reaction is, "Poor baby" followed by a heartfelt hug and a promise never to do anything to make them feel like they have any responsibility toward the HDS ever again.
Mike - whose favorite phrase is "UNCONDITIONAL LOVE"
There is justice, after all! 