I personally favor "Chocolate Honeydrop," but then again it's been so long for me that our FONT COLOR CODE doesn't even have me on its SCALE. So at this point, just the thought of me and such a DESIREABLE HD woman together has me headin' for the cold shower!
I think I've been pegged as having a crush on HoneyPot. To what I'm sure is her great relief, I must protest. I was simply being a "dedicated friend", as she rightly recognized.
In fact I don't have a crush on any HDW here. That's what I was trying to say when I commented that I haven't put a face on any of the W. I do, however, have a serious crush on your attitudes toward sex!
There is perhaps no limit to what I could put up with for that attitude in a R. A non-modelike body type, fecundness(?), wrong political views, poor housekeeping and/or cooking, and even Tupperware parties would be willingly accepted for the enthusiasm toward sex many of you have expressed. In fact, it makes each of you gorgeous....uh...in a platonic sort of way.
You can back peddle with the best of them but we still know what is in your ever lovin' heart.......You just want a woman to have a Mona Lisa smile all of the time and only you would know why........
I think the reason I don't have a crush on any of the HDM on the board(besides the fact that we are all semi-happily married) is that none of you are in a relationship with a woman as HD as me. As much as I think a certain core component of HD is innate, I still kind of believe that most guys would end up relatively LD to me in the long run in one way or another. For instance, some HD men would have no initial attraction to me, some would find they were only attracted to LD women in the long run, some would become LD once certain fantasies had been indulged, some would become LD after a certain number of encounters with the same woman over a given period of time, some would become LD once they started worrying about keeping up with me, some would stay HD but find that they craved new partners once a certain jadedness set in and therefore would be LD towards me.
Quote: There is perhaps no limit to what I could put up with for that attitude in a R. A non-modelike body type, fecundness(?), wrong political views, poor housekeeping and/or cooking, and even Tupperware parties would be willingly accepted for the enthusiasm toward sex many of you have expressed
Why don't you tell your wife "Honey, I want you to put all your energy into developing yourself sexually so I am going to hire a housekeeper, cook and nanny. Please indulge any sensual or social urge you might have if it helps you to relax and feel more sexual. I have purchased a hot tub and a chaise longue and arranged for a daily massage. Please let me know if there is anything else I might provide. I stand ready to serve. Your pleasure is my only goal."
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
Quote: I still kind of believe that most guys would end up relatively LD to me in the long run ---------------------
MM,
As gorgeous as your HD attitude makes you, and as much as I respect your opinions and enjoy your stories, that is such a crock! If a HDM said that, you gals would label him an egotistical braggart and think, "One night with me and I'd leave him begging for mercy, thinking it was going to fall off!" And IMO, you'd be right on both counts.
Maybe you've never encountered a REAL HDM. Perhaps the others you've known were just hormonally charged due to their youth. Perhaps you've never met your sexual match, and if you did, you'd begin making excuses for not having sex.
Actually, you've posted that you don't want sex every day. (Speaking for myself, that was a real WTF moment. ) NOP is currently on a 28 for 30 streak, I believe. Maybe he's too much for you.
I suppose all the SS HDHs have had doubts about what they might do in a RL "sex anytime" R. (I'll confess to them. But then I return to RL from my coma.) I think a true HDM would perceive your statement as a challenge to see who cried "uncle".
Nice try, MM. I'm glad you're not fighting a crush on anyone here, but if it's really for the reason you stated, your experience with HDM is certainly limited.
Quote: Why don't you tell your wife "Honey, I want you to put all your energy into developing yourself sexually so I am going to hire a housekeeper, cook and nanny. Please indulge any sensual or social urge you might have if it helps you to relax and feel more sexual. I have purchased a hot tub and a chaise longue and arranged for a daily massage. Please let me know if there is anything else I might provide. I stand ready to serve. Your pleasure is my only goal."
MM, I would LOVE if my H did this!! This would put me into out of this world overdrive . Of course I know that this would not happen unless we became independently wealthy, but it's nice to dream.
I don't mind the sun sometime
The images it shows
I can taste you on my lips
And smell you in my clothes
Cinnamon and Sugar
And softly spoken lies
You never know just how you look
Through someone elses eyes
BHS-"Pepper"
To what I'm sure is her great relief, I must protest. I was simply being a "dedicated friend", as she rightly recognized. 
But then I return to RL from my coma.) I think a true HDM would perceive your statement as a challenge to see who cried "uncle".
. Of course I know that this would not happen unless we became independently wealthy, but it's nice to dream.